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legitster · 3 years ago
I actually use this trick all of the time now and it's actually pretty effective.

A slow blink when looking at a cat signifies that you don't see them as a threat. So it can help relax strange cats, and it is also a cue from the cat that they are okay with you approaching them.

yard2010 · 3 years ago
I use this trick for years, in my experience yawning theatrically gets the same result
bravura · 3 years ago
For maximum results, lie sideways on the ground and start blinking slowly and petting yourself gently and meowing softly.

Your friends will think you're crazy, but cats will love you.

fransje26 · 3 years ago
The yawning also helps calming down the guard dogs protecting sheep herds in the mountains.
Sharlin · 3 years ago
Yawning probably goes back at least to the first mammals, it's pretty hard-wired as a standard mammalian social cue signifying a calm and relaxed affect and being in the "rest and digest" parasympathetic mode. It's contagious across species, and even thinking about yawning makes you want to yawn!
serchinastico · 3 years ago
Absolutely! Dogs use yawning a lot in their communication if you look close enough. They also have other messages like smelling around, looking away, etc. I think they all might mean something along the lines of "I don't see you as a threat to me so we are good"
quadcore · 3 years ago
I'd bet it works on human too. Will update you on that.
arethuza · 3 years ago
My wife uses this approach with our cat and it works. However, when I try it he pays no attention - could be that I've been his main servant for 18+ years so of course I don't see him as a threat or I have glasses any my wife doesn't or sheer feline contrariness ....
nativecoinc · 3 years ago
Were you actually surprised?
IAmGraydon · 3 years ago
I think the cat's slow blink is functionally related to a human smile, which when truly felt, also causes the eyes to close and then open slowly.

I've noticed that my two Siamese cats often combine the slow blink with either a bowing of the head or lifting of the chin. They also very often yawn while making eye contact when my wife or I enter the room.

KineticLensman · 3 years ago
Not a cat person, but I've worked with raptors. Staring at them tends to mean "I intend to eat / fight you". I understand this to be true of lots of mammals as well (e.g. you should avoid making eye contact with wild bears that you encounter). I can therefore interpret the slow blink as 'defusing' the aggressiveness / threat of a direct stare.
Twisol · 3 years ago
> Cat’s eye movements were coded using actions defined in CatFACS, an anatomically based system designed to objectively measure facial actions based on their underlying muscle movements.

Whoever named this system was clearly aware of the meme. I'd like to remain subscribed to CatFACS, please!

lattalayta · 3 years ago
Haha, in case you're not aware, FACS is an well established system for categorizing human face movements https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facial_Action_Coding_System
tim_hutton · 3 years ago
Did you know, cats are believed to be the only mammals that don't taste sweetness! To unsubscribe at any time, reply STOP to this message.
DFHippie · 3 years ago
I have heard (and perhaps misremembered) that the only taste receptor remaining to whales detects saltiness, which seems a bizarre outcome given that their mouths are constantly filled with brine.
DonHopkins · 3 years ago
https://animalfacs.com/catfacs_new (cats)

https://animalfacs.com/dogfacs_new (dogs)

https://animalfacs.com/equifacs_new (horses)

https://animalfacs.com/chimpfacs_new (chimpanzees)

https://animalfacs.com/maqfacs_new (rhesus macaques)

https://animalfacs.com/gibbonfacs_new (hylobatids / lar gibbons)

https://animalfacs.com/orangfacs_new (orangutans)

https://animalfacs.com/callifacs (marmosets)

I'm looking forward to more funny looking facs:

probofacs (proboscis monkey)

axolotlfacs (mexican walking fish)

alpacafacs (alpaca)

starfacs (star-nosed mole)

batfacs (bat)

blobfacs (blobfish)

frillfacs (frilled lizard)

winrid · 3 years ago
I do this all the time to my cats. Sometimes the cat will trill back like "oh, got it", which is about equal parts interesting and cute.
jancsika · 3 years ago
> Sometimes the cat will trill

Might be at maximum "P," especially if it was darting toward you immediately preceding this.

Next time try hanging some spinning pieces of catnip from your rafters to see if your cat can temporarily levitate in order to collect them.

winrid · 3 years ago
What?
keithalewis · 3 years ago
Slow clap. I mean blink.
interlinked · 3 years ago
Literature says cats can't understand it when you point at something. That's because they don't have fingers. You can point at things using your eyes and they understand. One day I was eating some fruits and a stray cat came to me and started meowing. I gave it a piece which it rejected and started meowing again. I stared for a couple seconds at my plate and then at the piece on the ground and the cat looked like it understood and stopped meowing.
gavinmckenzie · 3 years ago
This is interesting. I've had both cats and dogs, and with the theory "they don't have fingers" I wonder why do dogs understand human pointing? Dogs of course communicate with a direct gaze (looks at empty food bowl, looks at human, looks back at empty food bowl) and can understand us communicating back with a directed gaze, but at the same time my dog definitely understands me pointing at something.
6stringmerc · 3 years ago
Thanks for pointing - ha - that out! It totally makes sense to use visual communication because of course no fingers! Made me chuckle because it seems obvious yet, no, gear shifting for cats makes sense.
depressedpanda · 3 years ago
Maybe cats in general don't understand pointing, but both of my cats do. One of them is quite intelligent, so I'm not surprised there, but even the stupid (but adorable) one gets it.
gnulinux · 3 years ago
My cat does this too! There is a "got it" flavored affirmative trill, and also a "come on!" flavored frustrated trill.
Smoosh · 3 years ago
There's also the "you touched me" trill. Also the "oh, hai!" trill.
zaptheimpaler · 3 years ago
Friendly cats often look sort of sleepy to me, maybe because they do this slow blink sequence when I look at them?
dangwhy · 3 years ago
sometimes they are just sleepy but they are only sleepy like that when they are comfortable around you and don't see you as threat.
Sharlin · 3 years ago
The persistent eyes-half-open state means they're relaxed and resting and yes, consider you a friend so they can afford to be relaxed and resting. They're usually also affectionate and very receptive to pets in that mode. Slow blinks can accompany the half-open-state, or a cat may use a slow blink to go from wideish to half-open eyes.
alickz · 3 years ago
We don't understand cat facial expressions as intuitively as dogs

For example, what we would traditionally see as a grumpy or angry face (eyebrows down, eyes narrowed slightly) is the relaxed face of a cat

An angry cat's face on the other hand is wide open eyes, ready to attack back

phibz · 3 years ago
I had a siamese mix cat that did this. It seemed to mean "hey. I see you." A kind of recognition with a touch of affection. Its definitely part of the cat language.
verytrivial · 3 years ago
I've been explaining this to my kids for years when they meet the neighbourhood cats. Angry cats glare at each other, and this is basically the opposite. I guess science has caught up!
dangwhy · 3 years ago
jackson galaxy from 'my cat from hell' TV show uses this trick all the time . Its a cup all cat owners pickup after a while.
whateveracct · 3 years ago
That show and his Youtube channel are always a recommendation of mine to any new cat owner or person who doesn't have cat experience but wants to learn cat culture.

I watched a marathon of 'my cat from hell' around when I first got my two boys (they are 8 now) and I really think what I learned from watching jackson break down cat issues has helped me raise them into the sweeties they are today.

SwiftyBug · 3 years ago
My wife and I did this when we adopted our first cat. It's been incredibly helpful. As someone who had never interacted much with cats before that, and who was kinda afraid of them, Jackson Galaxy helped me see cats as little cute killing machines that can be as affectionate - if not more - than dogs.

His book is also very good!