Yes you are right 100%.
Few years ago I tried to raise cash for a devtools startup
I met with lots of VC. It was a fascinating yet horrible experience.
VC were not even interested in discussing about the product itself. They just wanted the growth numbers...
They couldn't care less about the problem I was trying to solve.
Software industry and Startups has evolved a lot from two decades ago.
20 years ago startups were built to be disruptive and bring innovation to the mass.
Today they just apply the YC model on repeat until the founders can make their exit and move to another startup...
Most Founders these days are just in for for the money and the fame , they want to appear on "Forbes" ,"Washington Post" and escape the boredom of Entreprise. In reality they don't care about actually solving problems , R&D nor software at all.
I'm not gonna blame them , why make something actually great when something mediocre will make you rich and famous ?
I was fortunate enough to find a job in banking with remote work , I only work 5-10 hours / week with a very high salary.
My team is full of incredible people super funny who don't commit their personal life on a shitty job to pay their bill , nor try to turn two founders from Berkley from multi-millionaires to billionaires.
I've worked in startups with 300M in the bank , SME , Enterprise , I've done them all ! No one cares about software, trust me after 10 years of experience I can tell you that no one cares about software !
All modern startups care bout is money !
I can only recommend you to find a boring job in a fortune 500 thats lets you have a fulfilling private life , I've done this choice and I'never been much happier in my entire life !
But for many other database such as "Amazon DocumentDB" , "Time Series" humour suggest it's Dynamo.