I'm using ENet for my RTS project and found that Steam's networking code offers many of the same features offered by ENet (including the reliable, in-order delivery of packets, which is invaluable for an RTS Game). I was able to abstract things out so that my game uses ENet on LAN games and Steam networking for online games, and the rest of the game code is none the wiser.
FWIW I grew up mostly in the Northeast.