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VampireWillow commented on Suicide hotline shares data with for-profit spinoff, raising ethical questions   politico.com/news/2022/01... · Posted by u/stsewd
ahelwer · 4 years ago
My impression of these services are that they are simply available so people can feel they have "done something" about someone who seems suicidal by giving them the number, then wash their hands of the rest of it. Not that someone else's mental health puts any particular obligation on you, but that's the dynamic I see play out. I've called these services twice over the years when I was young and naive and had friends I was worried about, and their entire objective is to trick you into giving them details so they can sic the police on these people and ruin their lives with an involuntary hold in the psych ward. One of the calls was more of an advice call, as in I (then 16 years old) was trying to ask them what I should do, and when I refused to give them the person's address the person on the line straight up asked me "what do you want me to do?" I don't know! I was a scared 16 year old kid and you're supposed to be the one who knows that! What is the point of you answering the phone!
VampireWillow · 4 years ago
I worked at a suicide hotline in Canada. The problem with what you are saying is that, as far as I know, there is no unified organism for suicide prevention centers and hotlines in North America (there are associations, but they don't seem to demand a unified process).

This means that, while your experience totally sucked, it can't be generalized. Most people I've talked to from all over the country genuinely want to help. I assume it's the same in the US. But some centers offer very little training, and their legal means probably vary a lot by location.

That said, there is a lot they can do beyond calling an ambulance, but it still comes down to talking and guidance, no one can physically force people to get better, except maybe some institutions (debatable).

VampireWillow commented on More than 1M fewer students are in college, the lowest numbers in 50 years   npr.org/2022/01/13/107252... · Posted by u/Takizawamura
nradov · 4 years ago
The better alternative is to immediately return all students and staff to full in-person education with no mandates or restrictions. Yes that will incur some small but acceptable level of additional risk.
VampireWillow · 4 years ago
Your comment is the epitome of "some of you will die, but that's a sacrifice I'm willing to make".
VampireWillow commented on More than 1M fewer students are in college, the lowest numbers in 50 years   npr.org/2022/01/13/107252... · Posted by u/Takizawamura
bagacrap · 4 years ago
The loans are exactly why the colleges were able to continue jacking up the prices. As with homes, people will pay as much as institutions are willing to loan them. In both cases the currently low interest rates allow the loan principal to be much higher (given that folks calculate cost based on recurring payments). If you remove the student loan system then tuition would become cheaper. However that does unfairly impact those from economically disadvantaged households.

Also, in-state tuition for state schools is much less than $50k/yr so try going to Cal and/or your best local public school and supplement with self teaching (e.g. via public/free lectures from MIT)? The self directed learning/motivation is the hard part for many people of that age, but few have said living frugally should or would be easy.

VampireWillow · 4 years ago
Here in Canada the government simply dictates to universities how much they can charge. It seems beyond insane to me to do it any other way, seeing as our entire societies are dependent on getting enough people educated to perpetuate a service economy.

To be fair, this kind of means that universities should be completely public. And although they are for all intents and purposes, in theory they are still non-governmental entities. And that's strange as well.

VampireWillow commented on “Autism is a spectrum” doesn’t mean what you think (2019)   neuroclastic.com/its-a-sp... · Posted by u/stared
VampireWillow · 4 years ago
a) I've never heard anyone say "we're all a little autistic". I think by and large people see autism as a spectrum that you can be on or not.

b) Her idea of how autism is diagnosed is wildly optimistic. It can work for self-diagnosis, ie "no diagnosis", but every psychologist and psychiatrist has a different idea of how to diagnose it. If you don't present repetitive movements, it will likely be very difficult to get a diagnosis.

One of the problems is how the DSM works. To vulgarize, it's a tool to diagnose dysfunctional abnormality. But atypical doesn't mean dysfunctional in the same way as for neurotypical people. And "normal" changes based on culture and context, the very concepts used to describe symptoms will change over time.

I think it's easier for individuals to recognize that they are neurologically atypical, but that's simply not a diagnosis just yet, so they can be misdiagnosed a lot. And there are fads in psychiatry that follow popular culture somewhat, so if yesterday's ADHD is today's autism, the goalposts are moving.

So hey, maybe trying to put a single label on such a complicated spectrum will always be a problem, and we should provide help and resources to people who need it without trying to boil things down to one word.

VampireWillow commented on Why writing software is not like engineering (2008)   cs.usfca.edu/~parrt/doc/s... · Posted by u/headalgorithm
jbluepolarbear · 4 years ago
Drupal and PHP is the standard chose? How? Were alternatives explored? This seems very odd as the choice for standardized websites.

A better solution would be standardize a backend apis and setup standards around how data is queried and stored. Next standardize how that data is presented to the user and how the user can manipulate that data. None of this requires a specific technology and sounds like decisions were made by people that don’t understand the problem they’re trying to solve or are being influenced by others with something to gain (like your big Drupal house).

VampireWillow · 4 years ago
You make a strong case for software not being engineering. Who should the client trust when every expert has something to sell, is not bound by an ethical code, and has experience that is incommensurable with every other expert's experience? Who are you to the client but another expert with a different solution to sell?

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