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DavidPiper · a year ago
My favourite related blog: https://squareallworthy.tumblr.com/post/163790039847/everyon...

> If your solution to some problem relies on “If everyone would just...” then you do not have a solution. Everyone is not going to just. At no time in the history of the universe has everyone just, and they’re not going to start now.

esperent · a year ago
I kind of disagree with that. Everyone has "just started doing" a ton of things in history. For example:

* Brushing their teeth, about a hundred years ago

* Regularly washing their hands, maybe 150 years? Less?

Etc.

Of course you can find people who still don't/do all of these and any other examples you come up with. But the point is that society as a whole has changed their view of these things, and what was abnormal is now normal. Which I'm pretty is what the "if people would just" folk really mean. Nobody is dumb enough to expect 100% of people to change 100% of the time, and it's unfair to their intelligence to assume that's what they mean.

Edit: removed one example that was too emotional and distracted from the point.

blargey · a year ago
The core message of "everybody will not just" is that you need to think about why people haven't already just, and address that.

With tooth-brushing and hand-washing people actually didn't know it was that good for you. So massive public health education campaigns about how they prevent acute illnesses turned out to be enough to get significant adherence. That both are very low-cost / low-burden / low-effort activities are also reasons that education on the benefits was enough.

(And educating the next generation of children to instill proper tooth-brushing and hand-washing as habits remains a perpetual ongoing effort; kids do not "just" either, they need to be educated the same way.)

Compare this to many "why won't everyone just" issues where the information is already out - merely re-proclaiming stuff already known by the audience that-will-not-just, and expecting that to turn the needle, is nonsensical.

reqqqles · a year ago
I don't do either of those things.

* I don't think there's actually any scientific studies proving brushing works, but the toothbrush definitely sheds microplastics into your body. Same with flossing.

* I don't see the need to completely obliterate all bacteria living on the surface of a part my body just because I touched my penis for a minute.

* I don't use shampoo either, it was brought from India just 200 years ago. Anti-dandruff shampoo isn't real and we don't even know exactly what causes it.

Outwardly I'm a pretty normal person.

edflsafoiewq · a year ago
Brushing your teeth is the opposite of an "if everyone would just" problem. You do it for yourself, you benefit from it, and you aren't affected much by whether everyone else is doing it or not.
bongodongobob · a year ago
Some people just don't do that.
cma · a year ago
Aren't you relying on the "recently" definition of just here rather than the "simply" definition?
hinkley · a year ago
The four words every software developer dreads:

"Why can't you just..."

switch007 · a year ago
My mind automatically filled in "...add a button to"
komali2 · a year ago
This reminds me of an anarchist article I recently read against voting.

https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/william-gillis-the-c...

> The argument for voting is very Kantian: “act so that if everyone acted so…” and “if no literally one voted then voting would matter again” but if literally no one voted the government wouldn’t maintain legitimacy. And in any case this is not an actual causality. When you vote you don’t magically cause everyone else like you to vote, you are a distinct agent with distinct internal thoughts. Your individual actions have only very weak externalities beyond the direct consequences of your choice/vote.

> Unfortunately the delusional thinking behind voting crops up in leftist inclinations in general. They want to build giant organizations, giant armies, with individuals all acting in low return-on-investment ways, in hopes of aggregate impact. They don’t search for opportunities of high impact individual direct action.

I was getting into an argument with some people who were yelling at me for voting third party in the USA federal election. Because I'm a Texas voter it's my fault the state won't turn blue. "If all Texas non voters voted, and if all third party voters voted democrat, the state would turn blue." And if only people would just stop committing crime, if only people would just not steal from their employees, if only people would just Do The Right Thing...

pixl97 · a year ago
Anarchist: "If everyone would just stop forming governments"

>but if literally no one voted the government wouldn’t maintain legitimacy

This is why no one takes anarchists seriously.

Now, the problem is not voting for first parties. It's lack of mandatory voting, and FPTP voting. Change it to ranked choice and suddenly third party votes wouldn't be wasted votes.

pixelatedindex · a year ago
Thanks for the link. As someone who feels disenfranchised with a countercultural thread running through, a lot of it resonated with me. I do tend to vote third party as well (maybe not this election given the state of the GOP) — after all, it’s your vote, why give it to someone you don’t agree with?

Though I will say that if you didn’t vote, then you don’t get to complain about the system because after all by not voting you’re rejecting a core tenet of the system. I gotta read more things out of this library, this is fun to noodle on.

grahamj · a year ago
Deciding not to murder and not to steal have measurable real-world effects. Voting in a way that results in no change does not. Voting on principle only works when you have proportional representation.

You should vote in a way that moves the needle the way you want it to move.

anileated · a year ago
It is possible to get everyone to just, it’s just that it only works with smaller sets of everyone. Everyone everyone would certainly never going to just, but you could just pick a smaller everyone (like everyone in this room or something).
saulpw · a year ago
It's difficult for me by myself to just, and if the stars align I might be able to get a second person to just, but any group of N>2 it is impossible.
hinkley · a year ago
I can get a few people to do a lot of things, and a lot of people to do a few things, but it's rarely 'just'. You have to acknowledge that it isn't free and it might not be easy, but convince them the rewards are worth the effort often and significantly enough that if once in a while they aren't, it still comes out in the wash.
chii · a year ago
so as long as it's not everyone, it just works.
Der_Einzige · a year ago
Authoritarians actually do implement "if everyone would just". Don't pretend like they don't.
xboxnolifes · a year ago
Except they don't. They aren't sitting up in their ivory towers thinking: "if everyone just did X, then everything would be better". No, they are executing plans to get to that outcome. They are recruiting people, coercing people, killing people, manipulating people, seizing power, etc. All working toward their goal.
barryrandall · a year ago
They claim to. Their advisors, lieutenants, and propagandists report great success. Their people just know better than to talk about it.
baxtr · a year ago
If the world could just get rid of authoritarians…

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pwdisswordfishz · a year ago
Except for the "just" part.
mistermann · a year ago
The world of politics needs some of this sober thinking.

That said, Lopatin below also makes a valid counterpoint.

alphazard · a year ago
If someone says "just", it means they believe the presented solution is less complicated than some existing proposal.

That conversation should be a significant part of software development, and usually the answer is "no we can't just do that, because it wouldn't do what we are trying to do", or "yes, but it's not actually as simple as you seem to believe". Sometimes the answer is "yes, we can just do that" and everyone should be glad when that is the case.

If you can't handle normal engineering criticism, then you are an imposter. Real engineers generate alternatives, and evaluate alternatives proposed to them.

Quothling · a year ago
I really think you should consider what is implied by the word "just". When you say "no we can't just do that" it implies that you think someone will have missed the obvious. This may fall under "normal engineering criticism" to you, but I can assure you that some people will not see it as such and they won't like it. Which makes it a poor fit for good team communication. It will probably also make you disliked. It's obviously not always an negative word on its own. In your "yes, we can just do that" example it's fine. It's, however, also unnecessary as you could say: "yes, we can do that" and retain the full meaning.

> If you can't handle normal engineering criticism, then you are an imposter.

It's not normal engineering criticism though. "Just" is (in)famously known as a term that you use when you're overconfident while missing the whole picture. In many universities around here they will teach you about the dangers of it. Because it's really not good engineering to not do your analytics before suggesting solutions. I think most of us are guilty of using it. In my current team we laugh about it. We have a sort of swear jaw mentality when someone uses the term unironically, usually called out by the person who did it themselves. It's now a term we mostly use it as an internal joke, however, and people are never going to miss an opportunity to call the most complex challenges "just" in the most hilarious way they can.

mistermann · a year ago
An engineering degree does not render Humans to be perfectly rational, though it can make it seem that way.
GrantMoyer · a year ago
For some reason, I found myself unreasonably upset at the suggestion that I should avoid a word solely because people will assume it indicates malintent. But after taking a step back to reflect, I realize it's not a big deal to avoid one word. I'm perfectly capable of condescension without having to rely on any specific word.
squidgedcricket · a year ago
I've come around to that conclusion on other verboten words, if other people don't like them it's not a big deal for me to stop using them. And I suppose it's less typing to push to main than it is to push to master.
hildolfr · a year ago
Fine, kudos to you for being so pliable, but I hope you and parent realize that's essentially the road to nuspeak.

Our language matters more than just linguistically, it matters culturally.

So, when someone wants to delete a word or usage, well it requires a lot of thought about the implications.

Sometimes it's a good thing, a lot of times there is a charged , sometimes political, motivation behind the desire for change.

vosper · a year ago
Agreed, and I've also come around to the inverse conclusion: if there are words people would like me to use (someone's preferred pronouns, the in-house terminology, the name someone introduced themselves with) then it's not a big deal for me to use them.
tracerbulletx · a year ago
It's weird to frame this as some imposition and that you're doing a favor to everyone by being a thoughtful communicator. Language is all about thinking about how what you say is going to be reflected in the minds of others. If you aren't already doing that constantly you are a bad communicator. You can choose to say things that sting intentionally if you want, but doing so because you haven't thought about it is just poor form.
pizzafeelsright · a year ago
Please stop using contractions. As a non-native English raised English learner the use of the contractions is difficult to hear the distinction at times.
hughdbrown · a year ago
> that I should avoid a word solely because people will assume

Nice deployment of 'solely.' I can see you did not want to say 'just because.'

more_corn · a year ago
That’s the spirit. Throw a little creativity behind it and you can condescend under any constraints.
ericmcer · a year ago
Would be nice if I could just flip a switch and stop using all language that I want to cut out.

I am currently working on getting rid of "I think" and ending statements with a "haha" (I hate this one). Sometimes I write a work message like: "I think we can just create a new token for it haha" and I want to slap myself. haha.

If I wrote that sentence as "We can create a new token for it" instant boost in respect from my peers and director level promotion in the works.

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lopatin · a year ago
Nike: Just do it.

OP: Well it's not always as simple as that. How will you get to the gym? Will you drive or ride a bike? What if there are other people using your usual weight machines, do you wait or do cardio? If you're working out after work, will you need to bring a change of clothes? How will my diet affect my workout? And how can I track my fitness to ensure I'm making progress?

Sometimes the answer is to just inject that JavaScript snippet. Of course all the follow up questions that OP mentioned to injecting that JS snippet are valid. But that is part of the "just". The person "just"ing that has assumed that you will consider all of those caveats and there should be no issues, because after all, why would there be if millions of people already use it without issue? It's up to the engineer to just do it, or push back if it's not actually as simple as it seems.

rendall · a year ago
> The person "just"ing that has assumed...

Indeed. "Just" implies an assumption has been made, but it's not clear what assumptions nor whether they are justified.

rocqua · a year ago
Great bit of semantic insight. Just signifies an assumption of simplicity. Which is different from signifying it IS simple.

Which makes it very nice for getting your assumptions checked.

midtake · a year ago
> the word “just” implies that an idea is simple.

What's wrong with this? That seems like proper usage to me. What the author has an issue with seems to be snobby, snarky, or sarcastic usage of the word "just."

Sometimes, the best answer is in fact "just add a DNS record."

The author should just write that instead of this long blog-post that gives the impression of someone easily offended.

Uehreka · a year ago
No, the problem is oblivious use of the word “just”. As in “just add a DNS record”, when said to an audience that has never setup a website. The idea here is that we (people who write instructions) are so bad at knowing our audience, and so bad at knowing if we’re one of the ones who are bad at knowing our audience, that it’s safer to just avoid using just entirely.
vilhelm_s · a year ago
It's not about written instructions to an audience who has never set up a website though, it's about an "engineer" and a "senior engineer" on the same team talking to each other.
interestica · a year ago
> Sometimes, the best answer is in fact "just add a DNS record."

Why not (just) answer with "Add a DNS record." ?

rocqua · a year ago
Just in a statement is insulting if the other person has no idea why the statement is true. Why don't you just, in a question, is insulting if the suggestion is a good one.

There is weird symmetry here.

buzzerbetrayed · a year ago
Why not either? I feel like that's the point. They both work. And insisting that everyone else use the version you like comes off as nitpicky.
miltonlost · a year ago
It's like in a math textbook where they say the word, obviously. No, it might NOT be obvious to your reader. See the story of Shizuo Kakutani teaching: https://curiosamathematica.tumblr.com/post/122398968526/obvi...

It might "just" be simple to you, but that could be with your years of knowledge. Write for your audience. If it's an informational blogpost? "just" might annoy people who do get confused because they think it should be easy. "Just" make the app.

Step 1. Draw a circle.

Step 2. Just finish the lion.

Why can't you draw from my instructions?

The same principle is why I try not to teach any game as "Simple", even when it is to me. Some people cannot follow rules to a game, no matter how simple, and then are frustrated when the "simple" game doesn't come to them. Why add that layer of negativity?

apsurd · a year ago
words mean things. What's really the benefit of adding in "just"?

Your claim is that people are too easily offended and so maybe these people will be (too) easily offend by the word. So what's really the benefit of using the word?

TylerE · a year ago
It adds clarity that you're proposing an alternate solution precisely because it's simpler/less work and not as a general alternative. It's a qualifier. think of it as shorthand for "Wouldn't it be easier if..."

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mistermann · a year ago
Group conformance yields substantial dividends.

Disagree with people's heuristics too often and you might find yourself looking for a job.

yetihehe · a year ago
> The author should just write that instead of this long blog-post that gives the impression of someone easily offended.

Just write a better article yourself.

cryptoz · a year ago
As someone who has added hundreds of DNS records, there is absolutely nothing “just” about it.
satisfice · a year ago
"Just" is a useful word and concept. The main reason people say it is that it promotes clear communication. Sometimes, I wonder if people who don't like the word "just" just don't like what the word implies.

Of course, one can use the word "just" in a cynical or abusive way. Banning the word does not in any way solve that problem. Some people are cynical and want to say things cynically. Some people want to do some abusing. Don't curtail English itself to solve a problem with bad intentions.

I often use the word "just" when I want to communicate that I think there might be a simple solution. It is not wrong to communicate that!

I often use the word "just" to indicate that one reason is much more important than any other reason as in "maybe you just don't like people to imply that you've missed an obvious solution." This may be the truth. Don't try to tell me I cannot speak the truth.

Do not unjustly criticize the proper use of "just."

nine_k · a year ago
Many people agree that while justice is important, mercy is often superior to it. Let's replace the usages of "just" accordingly!

"It's just so simple" -> "I's mercifully simple".

"It's just only a tiny change" -> "By mercy, it's but a tiny change".

"Just do it" -> "Have mercy, do it".

</ha-ha-only-serious>

inquisitor27552 · a year ago
where's jart

ill sell her ine.lol

foobarbecue · a year ago
When I worked in robotics at JPL, "just" was a running joke. We all tried to avoid using it, because we were all aware that it was a strong indicator of underestimating a challenge. We'd still catch each other using it all the time.
ssl-3 · a year ago
Words are to be used whenever (and as often as) they are appropriate.

Outside of slurs, blanket avoidance of words mostly just adds unnecessary obfuscation.

foobarbecue · a year ago
I agree. In this case, we felt that use of a particular word in a particular context reflected a mindset that many of us were trying to avoid. And, it became a fun game.