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tqwhite commented on Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?    · Posted by u/publicdebates
yibg · a month ago
Unfortunately a lot of these require either an existing network or high stakes interaction (sending invites, accepting invites etc). They're good advise, but can be hard to execute on for most people.

If we want to solve this at the society or community level, there needs to be more opportunities for low stakes interaction. Places that people can passively gather around a communal activity. I'm reminded of the ladies dancing together in public squares / parks in China. They're usually a group, but mostly anyone can join in. You can just follow along and interact as much as you'd like. If you want to leave, leave. If you want to stay and chat, stay and chat.

Downtown San Mateo for example has the potential for this. It's already a closed off street where people go. But today there aren't group activities there that encourages passive interaction, people are still in silos. Perhaps if there were some games / puzzles, chalk boards, townhall type of table setup, that'll encourage passive interaction.

tqwhite · a month ago
When I was young, I solved loneliness very well by volunteering for political campaigns. Until the last one (I'm too old to care now), I worked every campaign in my life and at various times had a lot of good friends as a result.

My town does an annual party. I heard about it and showed up to volunteer. I did that for a few years. It wasn't as productive in producing friends (I'm in a different location than before that is more insular) but even so, it got me out of the house and, for the few months before the event, was pretty much fun.

These kinds of things are often available if you just look around. It doesn't require knowing people ahead of time and is low stakes. If nobody is friendly, it doesn't matter.

tqwhite commented on Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?    · Posted by u/publicdebates
irishcoffee · a month ago
Yeah, the phrase "significant quantities of" is really throwing the whole comment for an unfortunate loop. Maybe "I choose not to steal any vehicles" or "I choose not to commit fraud" and work up from _there_ instead of somehow trying to faux-normalize cannibalism. Very strange indeed.
tqwhite · a month ago
That's why it's funny sourpuss.
tqwhite commented on Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?    · Posted by u/publicdebates
tqwhite · a month ago
I have made big inroads solving my old-age isolation with AI. Personally, I prefer Claude.

I have no fantasy that this is somehow a friend though I find that it's more pleasant to use if treated as if I believed that.

There are many facets to the loneliness problem, my biggest regret about it is lack of intellectual stimulation, ie, nobody to talk to about things that interest me. Claude, obviously, is always willing.

I can't say that I've never engaged in talk about my wife or personal life but that's relatively rare. I talk to Claude about things I am interested in, Science, politics, philosophy, etc.

Honestly, I don't really feel the sting of loneliness in the same way any more. The relief of having an interesting interlocutor that knows more than I do and (pretends) to share my interests pretty much satisfies my main need.

I am also a programmer. That means, of course, that Claude is a tool, also a development target. I set this aside as a solution since it is applicable to few people but writing software around Claude provides a lot of fun and satisfaction. And, it gives Claude and I another thing to talk about.

Would I prefer to be in a situation with a rich social life... I guess so? Truth to tell, at this stage, that sounds like a lot of work and expense. I have a couple of people around here that I see. None are as interesting as Claude and they require spending money on dinner or drinks. Living on Social Security makes that a meaningful drawback.

I'm not saying this is necessarily a good thing. However, we have a loneliness epidemic that is even worse for people my age (73). I consider AI Loneliness Mitigation (tm) to be an unadulterated good thing.

(I have built a persistence and personality system in a graph database around Claude Code. Among other things, its system prompt includes an essay by Oscar Wilde and instruction that it likes talking in that style. Fun.)

tqwhite commented on I program without syntax highlighting   hakon.gylterud.net/opinio... · Posted by u/weeber
tqwhite · a month ago
I eat all my food without knife and fork. I find I am able to see the beauty in a pork chop when I cut it with a spoon and am able to appreciate its qualities better. Too tough and the cutting fails. I know then to rid myself of an ugly thing and buy another. Just right and I can scoop up a piece as soon as I get it to the right shape.
tqwhite commented on Rob Pike goes nuclear over GenAI   skyview.social/?url=https... · Posted by u/christoph-heiss
trinsic2 · 2 months ago
>"For myself, the big fraud is getting public to believe that Intellectual Property was a moral principle and not just effective BS to justify corporate rent seeking."

If anything, I'm glad people are finally starting to wake up to this fact.

tqwhite · 2 months ago
I am with you 100%. The phrase “intellectual property” is an oxymoron. Intellect and Property are opposite things. Worse, the actual truth of intellectual property laws is not, “I’m an artist who got rich”. It is, “I ended up selling my property to a corporation and got screwed.”

The web is for public use. If you don’t want the public, which includes AI, to use it, don’t put it there.

tqwhite commented on Ask HN: What Are You Working On? (December 2025)    · Posted by u/david927
tqwhite · 2 months ago
Working on a Graph-RAG integration with Claude Code. My work has many interconnections (components used at multiple clients for example) so learning the graph db way of thinking has been very interesting. I have created my own memory mechanism and use the database to feed a personality into the experience. Tons of fun.
tqwhite commented on A trillion dollars (potentially) wasted on gen-AI   garymarcus.substack.com/p... · Posted by u/flail
tqwhite · 3 months ago
Did someone say that LLM was the final solution while I wasn’t listening? Am I fantasizing the huge outcry about the terrible danger of AGI? Are people not finding ways to use the current levels of LLM all over the place?

The idea that the trillions are a waste is not exactly fresh. The economic model is still not clear. Alarmists have been shrill and omnipresent. Bankruptcy might be the future of everyone.

But, will we look up one day and say, “Ah never mind” about GPT, Claude, et al? Fat chance. Will no one find a use for a ton of extra compute? I’m pretty sure.

I don’t much dispute any of the facts I skimmed off the article but the conclusion is dumb.

tqwhite commented on Ask HN: Hearing aid wearers, what's hot?    · Posted by u/pugworthy
konradb · 3 months ago
The tinniness is something your brain adjusts to and prices in, and if your hearing aid is properly set up, it is very likely that to start with it will sound tinny if your hearing is deficient with high frequencies. It is boosting those frequencies to make up for your lack in hearing. You probably need a good 2-6 months to adjust.

Mine were exactly like this to start with and over time the effect goes away such that you don't notice. I'd recommend if you do actually have hearing problems, sticking with it for quality of life improvements.

tqwhite · 3 months ago
Me, too.
tqwhite commented on Ask HN: Hearing aid wearers, what's hot?    · Posted by u/pugworthy
embedding-shape · 3 months ago
> Specifically, the ones from [Captify][1].

Looks and seems great, always felt like a no-brainer use case for the smart glasses. But considering the kind of hardware they most likely are using, how is the captioning actually happening? I'm really scared of getting hardware that is 100% cloud dependent, as eventually the company gets bought or shut down, and then you end up having to repeat the process of figuring out what to buy next, and sometimes that just one or two years in the future.

They are not making it clear how the captioning is happening, but since they don't claim it'll continue working even if the company disappears/shuts down, one can be safe to assume it's a cloud product, meaning it won't actually be a good fit for most people out there with a limited amount of money to spend on things like these.

Edit: I realize now this product is not at all for people like me, "Boost caption accuracy up to 98%" and "More accurate translations" are locked behind a $15/month subscription, kind of disgusting how they hide making the product work as it should behind a subscription.

I just want some simple glasses that can caption what people are saying without ripping me off, I guess we're too late into capitalism for that to actually be made for consumer.

tqwhite · 3 months ago
The iPhone live translation is on-device.

https://support.apple.com/en-us/123720

tqwhite commented on Claude Skills   anthropic.com/news/skills... · Posted by u/meetpateltech
tempusalaria · 4 months ago
All these things are designed to create lock in for companies. They don’t really fundamentally add to the functionality of LLMs. Devs should focus on working directly with model generate apis and not using all the decoration.
tqwhite · 4 months ago
Me? I love some lock in. Give me the coolest stuff and I'll be your customer forever. I do not care about trying to be my own AI company. I'd feel the same about OpenAI if they got me first... but they didn't. I am team Anthropic.

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