Especially 5 years down the road when you own ~30% of a $100M company - but you know there's a decent chance you'll walk away with very little, if not nothing - while your peers are all making ~$1M per year working 6 hour days at FAANG with a life partner, maybe kids, and a sizable net worth that isn't going away.
Sure, you've got a decent chance to rocket past them in wealth. But they've got everything they really want. You might have foregone your shot at a partner to build a company to mostly profit someone else who did nothing but write you a check. If you do have kids, you'll be old as hell raising them. All you'll have is extra stuff hardly anyone cares about - except maybe you - if you're the type of person chasing down a decimillion net worth.
I hope these people truly enjoy their boats and their third homes in Aspen! It sure is a lot of work to get them.
You are completely detached from the real world. Even in super rich countries like the US there are a lot of people without savings, living paycheck to paycheck. Most/all software engineers outside the US can only dream of ever earning that much money. And yet here you are, worrying that you'll end up only slightly richer than people earning ~$1M per year.
What a horrible fate. They only got five years of salary plus 200k extra. I'll include them in my prayers (just kidding, I don't pray).