Go on Grindr, have hookups, wait till one gets attached.
So yeah - your point is completely valid, but adoption has to start somewhere. Thanks for checking out the project!
I didn't check anything out in person, but have looked at reviews of framework, system76, thinkpads and there hasn't been one where there haven't been serious complaints (e.g. bent parts in some framework 16s causing the whole thing to rattle.)
(Is an M1 Air with Asahi a good idea?)
Battery life is the second issue.