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spacemadness commented on What even is 'adult' content? [NSFW]   worldofmatthew.com/blog/n... · Posted by u/worldofmatthew
ta1243 · a month ago
You clearly have no idea about parenting if you think all you have to do is have "a talk"

Healthy is a continual conversation from aged 8 through 18

spacemadness · a month ago
I never said anything of the sort. You just seemed to be on a strict timeline. Have a nice day and good luck.
spacemadness commented on Fuck dopamine, we're voluntarily breaking our own brains   anushkakarmakar.substack.... · Posted by u/ak_builds
tclancy · a month ago
“Because we've created a world where effort gets treated like a disease to be cured.”

That pretty much sums it up for me. Well put. I am at a point where I am trying to acquire hobbies to improve my happiness and there is a difficulty modifier now on a lot of things where it’s like “what’s the point”. It reminds me of when X-Box first offered the ability to watch other people play. I was grinding to get like five more points on a course to hit the 200 point requirement, so I downloaded the top ghost video for the course. That person and I were not even playing the same game; they were orders of magnitude better than I was and all I wound up learning was I would never be that good at it.

spacemadness · a month ago
I think this is why I grasp on to strength training and fitness as one of my main hobbies. There is no current shortcut other than steroids but even then you still need to put in the effort. If I stop, I can feel and see my body atrophy, my stress levels rise, my energy going down, etc. You need to keep learning and adjusting to make progress. You can definitely nerd out about it if you want. And it provides the dopamine rush after a tough workout and looking back and seeing my progress. It helps me connect with my body since I’m in my head all day. It’s also a primal and human activity that has nothing to do with AI.
spacemadness commented on Yet another bad three months as Tesla reports its Q2 2025 results   arstechnica.com/cars/2025... · Posted by u/duxup
evklein · a month ago
Yeah, seems like it's even worse in that it's a _death cult_. The people in it know that it's not worth what the market prices it at, so they know any sudden moves in the wrong direction and they're gonna lose all that value. That leaves no choice but to double down and never stop. The collapse of this thing is going to be incredible.
spacemadness · a month ago
Their latest move is calling it an AI company. Good luck everyone.
spacemadness commented on What even is 'adult' content? [NSFW]   worldofmatthew.com/blog/n... · Posted by u/worldofmatthew
laurent_du · a month ago
Let's be real, everyone feels nudity is inherently sexual, except on HN and probably on reddit where men love to claim that it's not. I don't know if it's virtue-signalling, sexual frustration, or something else. It does sound weird and creepy to me - grown up men who claim that naked women are not arousing, the same men who rally en masse every time pornography censorship is discussed, to complain about freedom of expression, when they are really just afraid they will lose the ability to stare at naked women having sex.

Another, more charitable, explanation, would be that a lot of people around here are asexual. It's possible - but to this extent? I am skeptical.

spacemadness · a month ago
All of this is in your head and projection, especially the part about others being creepy. You think sex and nudity is creepy and people are arguing for easier access to being extra creepy. That’s on you, but your judgments on others is not a healthy truth.
spacemadness commented on What even is 'adult' content? [NSFW]   worldofmatthew.com/blog/n... · Posted by u/worldofmatthew
diggan · a month ago
> It's sexual for a decent proportion of people - just the fact that this article was tagged NSFW shows that

I don't think it shows that at all. Any content not suitable for a work computer in the typical office gets a NSFW label, it's literally in the name. An image of some war-time event can be as NSFW as an image of a woman removing her clothes, and at the same time neither images can be sexual.

spacemadness · a month ago
Yeah it’s certainly not safe for work. Should it be? I mean, ideally yes. In practice? Hell no. I don’t need Karen from accounting coming up with her own reasons why I’m looking at a naked pregnant lady even though I know there is nothing wrong with it.
spacemadness commented on What even is 'adult' content? [NSFW]   worldofmatthew.com/blog/n... · Posted by u/worldofmatthew
jermaustin1 · a month ago
> And I'd never want my kids to be exposed to it.

That is why parental controls exist. As a close to middle aged adult without any kids, why do I have to hand over my ID to protect YOUR kids?

But that isn't want this is about. The people who don't want porn around aren't doing it because of the kids, they are doing it for some religious/cult belief.

If you look into the history of how law enforcement has protected children in their crusade against porn, you will see countless examples of them being able to protect a child, but instead leave them with their abusers for years to gather evidence.

Traci Lords began filming porn at 14 with a fake ID her kiddie diddling "stepdad" got her. The FBI admitted to knowing she was underage basically from the start, but "allowed her to continue" until she was 18 before attempting to prosecute her - instead of extricating the child from the exploitative pornographers. [1]

The FBI ran child porn sites for years as honey pots, they even bragged about running the largest CP site on the internet. Instead of providing information how they found the users in discovery they would drop charges. [2]

Anti-porn movement in the US. [3]

1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traci_Lords:_Underneath_It_All

2: https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-39180204

3: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-pornography_movement_in_t...

spacemadness · a month ago
I guess we’re overdue for another satanic panic style crusade from people who live in fear and use children as their shield.
spacemadness commented on What even is 'adult' content? [NSFW]   worldofmatthew.com/blog/n... · Posted by u/worldofmatthew
ta1243 · a month ago
They're really not interested yet now and get annoyed when other kids in the class post it

It's about being able to control and monitoring in the real world, where unlike the 90s the "family computer" isn't the thing in the corner of the living room.

There's 6 more years before they're an adult, 4 more years before they can legally have sex, and typically at least 4 years before they start heavy petting, plenty of time to transition.

Someone on their first driving lesson isn't dropped in the middle of the arc de triumph and told to drive to Rome, it takes a lot of lessons to get that far.

spacemadness · a month ago
You might want to rethink your perceived timeline for how sexuality works in practice for teenagers if you’re waiting to talk to them on schedule. Source: was a teenager.
spacemadness commented on What even is 'adult' content? [NSFW]   worldofmatthew.com/blog/n... · Posted by u/worldofmatthew
nrvn · a month ago
> The image attached to this blog post is a stock photo of a nude pregnant woman. Absolutely nothing sexual.

maiesiophilia (pregnancy fetishism), maschalagnia (armpit fetishism)…

spacemadness · a month ago
You obviously didn’t read their article then because they already made your point in a following sentence.

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spacemadness commented on Wife of ICEBlock app founder speaks out after DOJ fires her   newsweek.com/iceblock-app... · Posted by u/arunabha
BonoboIO · a month ago
I found this article via https://hn.algolia.com/ and immediately knew, that I would see the flagged mark.

Is this because readers don’t want to be reminded how absurd the world outside has become?

spacemadness · a month ago
Go ahead and see with your own eyes what a lot of HN commenters really think about other humans. It’s pretty plain to see and very sad. They’re the folks flagging everything.

u/spacemadness

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