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pacificleo11 commented on Launch HN: The Buttermilk Company (YC S18) – Homemade Indian Food in 5 Minutes    · Posted by u/mitraraman
js2 · 7 years ago
A bunch of us Westerner looking types went to a Thai restaurant in Mountain View. This was many years ago and I don't recall the restaurant. We ordered some shared dish and were asked how spicy we wanted it, 1-10. We said 10. The whole "are you sure?" thing a few times. They brought the dish out. We said "this really isn't 10 spicy." The server said, "next time say you want it 10 on the Thai scale". Sigh.

I live in NC now. There's an ice cream place here that has you sign a release form before they'll let you try their "Cold Sweat"[0] made with habanaro, ghost pepper oil, etc, ice cream. I tried it. It was pretty amazingly hot, but while eating it I noticed they had a flavor called "Exit Wound." I asked what it was. "Oh, that's even hotter." Didn't try it... the Cold Sweat was really hot.

There's something wrong with an America where the spiciest food I can get is ice cream. :-)

[0] Cheesy food network video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8oy_zYRTZ0

pacificleo11 · 7 years ago
Was it Amron Thai On Castro Street ?
pacificleo11 commented on Self-criticism can take a toll on our minds and bodies   nytimes.com/2018/05/22/sm... · Posted by u/ingve
manmal · 7 years ago
Exactly, the situation for us humans is that emotions are based on our perception of reality, and this perception might be (or, most likely, is) tainted. Lesswrong has some articles on emotions, which were very enlightening to me btw. Emotion is important to listen to! But instead of taking the easy way out of an emotion, like giving in to rage and hitting someone, or running away from a painful situation, we can stop to reflect what view of the world causes this emotion, and find a more rational way to find a more constructive way to deal with the problem at hand. That’s btw exactly what cognitive behavioral therapy is about. The hard part is to stop in your tracks and recognize situations that pull „the trigger“ for you.
pacificleo11 · 7 years ago
Thanks can you please point to the Lesswrong article ?
pacificleo11 commented on Self-criticism can take a toll on our minds and bodies   nytimes.com/2018/05/22/sm... · Posted by u/ingve
_ywdj · 7 years ago
“Self-criticism ... can lead to ruminative thoughts that interfere with our productivity, and it can impact our bodies by stimulating inflammatory mechanisms that lead to chronic illness and accelerate aging”

This assertion may sit outside conventional medical science and mainstream accepted wisdom, but it aligns with my own experience.

After trying unsuccessfully for years to overcome depression/anxiety, chronic fatigue and other mysterious illnesses (asthma, skin problems, headaches, back tension/pain) using conventional/material remedies (antidepressants, exercise, diets), I added emotion-based treatments to my regimen about 6 years ago, and have had much greater success.

In particular, I've undertaken practices that identify negative beliefs, traumas and sabotaging behavioural patterns that are held in the subconscious, then allow these issues to be understood and resolved. Self-criticism has been big part of what I've been able to work through.

It's been no quick fix (it seems I've had a lot of baggage to work through), but bit by bit, as my emotional health has improved, my physiological health has steadily improved, as have all the outer-world indicators like relationships, productivity and career.

I'm now comfortable suggesting that this approach is overlooked by mainstream medicine to the great detriment of many people suffering chronic illness, and given the link with inflammation that has been suggested in this article and elsewhere, and that I seem to have experienced myself, far more progress could be made in addressing inflammatory and autoimmune illnesses if this approach were to be taken seriously.

pacificleo11 · 7 years ago
Can you please share the details of methods /techniques you used? did you saw a therapist? I am in same boat here and can use some help
pacificleo11 commented on Ask HN: How do you recover from repeated interview rejections?    · Posted by u/anon_zen09
anon_zen10 · 7 years ago
OP here (lost original handle)

Most don't give any feedback for rejection

pacificleo11 · 7 years ago
Can you drop me a email to pacificleo-at-gmail-dot-com I might be able to help
pacificleo11 commented on How Stripe's COO approaches company-building [audio]   lattice.com/resources-for... · Posted by u/jackaltman
pacificleo11 · 7 years ago
importance of thinking through whether to have your company organized functionally or around business can't be overstated. Functional orientation makes lack of accountability and can lead to bureaucratic culture and Business orientation can lead to silos and coordination failure.

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