Now to your question: 30 days is the norm for knowledge workers. Days off, including: when you are sick, when your kid is sick so you have to take care of them, special occasions such as death of a close relative, marriage, relocation) don't get counted on these 30 days at all.
In the 90's there was a vector graphics editor called Satori. It was something beyond the understanding of us neighbourhood kids. Something beyond the Paint (and Paintshop Pro). Now let's get back from the nostalgia trip...
It inspired many, including me, to open a hackerspace and to this day is the document I refer people to when they want to start one.
What is amazing is that even after almost 15 years, these design patterns still matches how my hackerspace runs. This isn't because we follow them religiously, just that they are natural and very effective.
I would encourage anyone wanting to create a hackerspace, or any other social space for that matter, read these over.
It is also important to know that these are patterns and guidelines, not rules. If something doesn't fit with your community, your community should be empowered to change things that fit them better.
Also I recommend people to read through these.
Are you speaking from experience or is this just your expectation? My wife and I were back to normal pretty much as soon as everything healed up (4-6 weeks or so)
I can highly recommend anyone to read about the process of medical emergency triage in general. It drastically reduces the knowledge needed to solve complex situations and gives you something to hold on to when things get hot. Seeing these stressful problems reduced to if-else flows was very inspirational for me for designing ways to tackle urgent issues in other areas of life, e.g. tech support, service requests or HR.
I have to admit I'd rather stick with normal diet. Just recude the intake or increase the consumption.
This page[1] calls these co-living spaces hackbases, and lists a few in Europe.
[1] https://wiki.hackerspaces.org/Hackbase