I have been in a paper-notebook-calendar mode for a while now, but every time I've dealt with an electronic calendar app, it's been a struggle, because sometimes I write down a time relative to the time zone I'm in right now, and sometimes I write down a time relative to the TZ I'll be in when the thing happens (on vacation, at a conference, whatever). And for things in the latter category, I _want_ to visibly see the local-to-the-event time so that I can talk to other people about it, but I also want it to be in the correct time when I'm actually at the event so that I don't miss an appointment. This is trivially easy on a paper calendar I keep for myself and is Really Dang Tricky for electronic calendar apps.
I think a better "lesson learned" in this case is to remove all ambiguity from datetime types by internally using only UTC representations for calculations and reserve timezone usage for display purposes.