Fellow NI resident here
I can recommend joining the NI tech slack if you want, there's a jobs channel and plenty of other people who'd be willing to give you advice. https://nitech.herokuapp.com
all the best in the coming weeks and months for both you and your family
Already on it, thanks. Posted something in freelance and jobs channels yesterday, going to try again today.
I'm really sorry to hear about your situation! I'm in Northern Ireland too and I'm lucky to be employed (for now) and WFH. All I can do is ask around for you if you drop me an e-mail!
Cheers,
Martijn