(Wow I sound triggered! sigh)
I love the idea of Framework, but the upgradability seems questionable to me. I base this off my experience with desktops where I've rarely over the decades upgraded more than the hard drive and RAM. When I'm looking at upgrading the motherboard it seems I just end up going all the way and getting a new case/ps/etc at the same time. Maybe that's just me though?
I get occasional nudges to support their organization, but it's a clear and direct appeal, there are no dark patterns that I'm aware of.