However, the fact is these people are inundated with job offers and very generous swag - like laptops. Everybody wants to hire them. It's hard to compete for one of these candidates let alone fill an engineering team. Centering hiring around that is an act few can follow.
It's really not that difficult to show the right amount of candor while being objective about the disagreement.
This doesn't have to be a game of chess where you overanalyze your every move. People will respect the fact you said something that might be the elephant in the room anyway.
The challenge is that these articles assume that you're working with vindictive egotists, and there's plenty of those in corporate America.