The average load time for a website is 2.5 seconds. The added load time from running your own recursive resolver, which is only added the first time the site is loaded, would be around 50ms, or 2% increase load time.
DNS resolving is not a major aspect of a typical websites load time. If you want to speed things up, run a local proxy which local cached version of all popular web frameworks and fonts, and have it be be constantly populated by a script running in the background. That will save you much more than 2% on first load.
Recursively resolve bbc.com: 18ms https://pastebin.com/d94f1Z7P Recursively resolve ethz.ch: 17ms https://pastebin.com/x6jSHgDn Recursively resolve admin.ch: 39ms: https://pastebin.com/DUTg8Rit
Page load in Firefox: bbc.com DOMContentLoaded: ~40ms, page loaded: ~300ms reuters.com DOMContentLoaded: ~200ms, page loaded: ~300ms google.com DOMContentLoaded: ~160ms, page loaded: ~290ms
So it's quite reasonable to do full recursive resolution, and you'll still benefit from caching after the first time it's loaded. One other idea I had but never looked into it was instead of throwing out entries after TTL expiry to just refresh it and keep it cached, no idea if BIND/Unbound can do that but you can probably build something with https://github.com/hickory-dns/hickory-dns to achieve that.
Does anyone have recommendations for domain registrars that support .ch and .li domains and ideally also supported by lego (my current acme client of choice)?