You have a coin, and each time you don't get heads the payout doubles. Get heads and get the payout. What do you pay to play this?
It turns out that you can't work out an E[X] for this, as it's a series that doesn't converge. But also if you go around and ask people what they'd pay, surprisingly they don't say infinity. Expectation is thus not the last word in decision making.
Turns out utility is a thing that matters, and we can come up with some thoughts on it (von Neumann-Morgenstern etc).
I'm not sure it's that surprising, the expectation is only infinity if you think the person making the payout has the capacity to pay an infinite amount. The second you think this amount is finite (which must always be the case in reality), then the expectation becomes finite and probably quite small.
I agree in the more general point, expectation is not always the best tool for extremely rare / extremely significant scenarios.
The fact that no broker cares about which instance of the stock or dollar you own but can track it anyways proves that those things are effectively fungible. In Bitcoin it is obviously not true that exchanges don’t care in the same way - plainly obvious from the source material you are responding to.
When different bitcoin have different value by virtue of not being exchangeable at the largest liquidity pools, and your definition of fungible fails to capture that fact, you have the wrong definition.