Also $1k month on bills? Groceries too?
Judging by your inflated costs for everything, and ann idea that a house (versus more modest accommodations) is what the goal is, you’ve got Lifestyle creep. And, things certainly get a lot easier when your spouse also works.
For a long while we managed to stay around $500-600 but that was before COVID inflation. I dunno how the official inflation rate's as low as it is, we don't buy much that'd be considered "luxury" level (we're not buying caviar, say, and rarely even get stuff like the grass-fed "fancy" butter [actually yellow instead of white, tastes like something rather than just having texture but no flavor] instead of the cheapest available) and I'm pretty sure we buy a lot less meat per person than the US average, but if we fill up a cart now it's like $250-$300. I've hit $150 on small shopping trips where I didn't even fully fill one of the smaller, short carts.
$150 phone $200 electricity $200 gas $200 water $80 internet $80 trash
Car insurance? Gas? I’m ridiculously generous when saying you can save $6k per month.
Assuming a 4% draw down (conventionally agreed to be safe) is over 5.5k a month.
That said if you’re making $250k+ a year and not on track to retire by 50, seriously please open a retirement calculator and figure out what you need to do to get there.
A semi decent apartment in SV will cost you ~$3k
Bills(phone, internet, electricity, etc) another $1k.
If you are married, groceries at least $1k.
Even if we assume you don’t do anything else in life, and you are in perfect health best case scenario would be $6k savings a month or $72k a year.
It would take you 10 years to save $720k plus whatever you make from investments.
That’s not enough to even buy you a house in SV. How are you going to retire?
Unless you assume you will get $250k straight out of college and keep up salary raises for 25 years.
Sure, if you don’t have kids, age with no health problems, never enjoy anything in life, you may be able to retire at 50 in Thailand or Philippines.
The problem is that $2 here and there adds up, and at the level of the whole car it can add hundreds, or thousands of dollars of extra cost for reliability that the user can't experience directly. For some percentage of owners the plastic part works fine for the whole time they have the car. On the other hand sturdier parts add expense in the case of an accident or replacing parts during routine maintenance.
Edit: but at the end of the day all his own cars are Toyota/Lexus