Specifically, I try to match the theme variant to my lighting conditions. I had some major eye strain for a while, and doing this with this theme seemed helped.
Specifically, I try to match the theme variant to my lighting conditions. I had some major eye strain for a while, and doing this with this theme seemed helped.
Location: Seattle, WA, USA
Remote: Yes (remote only)
Willing to relocate: No
Technologies: JavaScript (& TypeScript), React, Node.js, Go, and related technologies
Seeking: An ongoing engagement of ~15 per week
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I’m a full-stack developer with 10+ years of experience. I specialize in web development using JavaScript, React, Node.js, and other related technologies. In 2020, I returned to school to pursue a new career as a marriage and family therapist and I’m now seeking an ongoing, part-time arrangement of about 15 hours per week to see me through the next several years of this journey.
I’m interested in any JavaScript related work: testing writing, bug bashing, code maintenance/refactoring, documentation, planning & prototyping, feature development, etc. Give me all your grunt work, or let me loose to build out features or a from-scratch prototype.
See my GitHub profile for several active, open source projects.
Also, please acknowledge that 15 per week will work for you when reaching out
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GitHub: https://github.com/mgmeyers
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mgmeyers/
Personal Website: https://matthewmeye.rs
Email: hello@matthewmeye.rs
Location: Seattle, WA
Remote: Yes (only)
Willing to relocate: No
Technologies: JavaScript (& TypeScript), React, Node.js, Go, and related technologies
Résumé/CV: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mgmeyers/
Email: hello@matthewmeye.rs
Note: I am seeking a part-time arrangement of no more than 15 hours per week.I’m a full-stack developer with 10+ years of experience. I specialize in web development using JavaScript, React, Node.js, and other related technologies. In 2020, I returned to school to pursue a new career as a marriage and family therapist and I'm now seeking an ongoing, part-time arrangement of about 15 hours per week to see me through the next several years of this journey.
See my GitHub profile for several active, open source projects I'm working on: https://github.com/mgmeyers
Location: Seattle, WA, USA
Remote: Yes (remote only)
Willing to relocate: No
Technologies: JavaScript (& TypeScript), React, Node.js, Go, and related technologies
Seeking: An ongoing engagement of ~15 per week
---
I’m a full-stack developer with 10+ years of experience. I specialize in web development using JavaScript, React, Node.js, and other related technologies. In 2020, I returned to school to pursue a new career as a marriage and family therapist, and I am seeking an ongoing, part-time arrangement of about 15 hours per week to see me through the next several years of this journey.
I’m interested in any JavaScript related work: testing writing, bug bashing, code maintenance/refactoring, documentation, planning & prototyping, feature development, etc. Give me all your grunt work, or let me loose to build out features or a from-scratch prototype.
See my GitHub profile for several active, open source projects I'm working on.
---
GitHub: https://github.com/mgmeyers
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mgmeyers/
Personal Website: https://matthewmeye.rs
Email: hello@matthewmeye.rs
Location: Seattle, WA, USA
Remote: Yes (remote only)
Willing to relocate: No
Technologies: JavaScript (& TypeScript), React, Node.js, Go, and related technologies
Seeking: An ongoing engagement of ~15 per week
---
I’m a full-stack developer with 10+ years of experience. I specialize in web development using JavaScript, React, Node.js, and other related technologies. In 2020, I returned to school to pursue a new career as a marriage and family therapist, and I am seeking an ongoing, part-time arrangement of about 15 hours per week to see me through the next several years of this journey.
I’m up for any JavaScript related work—testing writing, bug bashing, code maintenance/refactoring, documentation, planning & prototyping, feature development, etc. Give me all your grunt work, or let me loose to build out features or a from-scratch prototype!
---
GitHub: https://github.com/mgmeyers
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mgmeyers/
Personal Website: https://matthewmeye.rs
Email: hello@matthewmeye.rs
This sounds pretty deep. I immediately remembered other people who I suspect had such false-but-useful beliefs. How to identify areas of false beliefs in yourself?
Internal family systems is a more elaborate, but thorough approach: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6969927-self-therapy
“I feel really sad”
“Don’t. You’ll be alright”.
“Phew. Thanks. I’m cured.”
If anyone here has solutions that are more than “Just focus” I’m interested. It’s starting to affect my work life especially now since a lot of my current work don’t have much meaning and I need to get through this for a few months at least.
The only thing that I found that actually works, however, is internal family systems therapy. Because of IFS (and my therapist) I now know what it's like to be genuinely confident, rather than fighting or pretending to be.
- Encouraged PTO (they suggest one week a quarter) - A lot of quiet / introversion rooms as well as space to be chatty - Full normal health benefits AND mental health benefits (emotional counseling) - Mental health days are totally accepted - People WFH as they need (though encouraged to be in the office) - A large personal development stipend ($3K/yr)
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They also provide a lot of other aspects that I think play into the culture, but really it's the people that make it for me. Everyone really cares about the mission.
> Talk therapy has done little.
I honestly don't think recovery from trauma can be achieved without psychotherapy. You can cover it up, but it's still going to impact your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to some degree. You might get lucky with things like psychedelics, but finding the right therapist and right therapy will bring about change more consistently.
The challenge, however, is that there are many styles of therapy and many styles of therapists. Also, there are different types of trauma (eg. shock trauma, complex trauma, attachment trauma) that require different approaches to treatment. I was lucky in that I found a therapy and therapist that worked for me in my first try. My partner, however, went through 7 therapists over the course of a few years before they found a good fit. Any decent therapist will not be offended if you tell them you feel therapy is not going anywhere, in fact it's in their code of ethics that they need to help you find a better fit.
What works for me isn't going to work for you, but here's my opinion (that you didn't ask for) on therapies that are better at treating trauma than CBT or "traditional" talk therapy: Internal Family Systems therapy, EMDR, the NeuroAffective Relational Model, and Somatic Experiencing / Sensorimotor. AEDP and Coherence Therapy are also decent options. If CBT is all that's available, at least try to find TF-CBT (trauma-focused).