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maroonblazer commented on I'm addicted to being useful   seangoedecke.com/addicted... · Posted by u/swah
Aurornis · 22 days ago
I disagree. I think the overly academic isolation of "validating emotions" into something that happens without endorsing the response isn't how real people communicate.

Any time you're "validating emotions" in the real world, there is going to be some degree of implicit endorsement that the reaction was valid.

The idea of "validating emotions" being synonymous with saying "I agree that you feel that way" is rather infantile. Nobody needs someone to agree that the emotion they experienced is the emotion they experienced.

maroonblazer · 22 days ago
My partner and I have been through this cycle. Something happens, she interprets it a certain, very specific, way and then has an adverse emotional reaction.

In the early days of our relationship I would try to explain to her why her emotion doesn't 'make sense'. That just made things worse. Much worse. When she helped me understand that she needed me to validate that what she was feeling was legitimate - based on her interpretation of the events - she was able to let go and consider other interpretations.

Note that this "letting go" almost never happened in the moment, but only after the emotions abated and she had time to process the entire situation. We're talking hours, not minutes.

maroonblazer commented on The best things and stuff of 2025   blog.fogus.me/2025/12/23/... · Posted by u/adityaathalye
BeetleB · a month ago
I assume you use it as a throw and not as a blanket for sleeping, right?

For sleeping, I have the opposite problem. I always overheat.

maroonblazer · a month ago
Me too. For that I highly recommend the Tree Napper from Bearaby.

https://bearaby.com/collections/weighted-blankets

maroonblazer commented on Two recently found works of J.S. Bach presented in Leipzig [video]   youtube.com/watch?v=4hXzU... · Posted by u/Archelaos
Waterluvian · 3 months ago
I would describe Prelude in C as having one of the highest “simplicity to depth” ratios of any piece I’ve played. I wonder if anyone else has any they’d suggest as being incredibly simple while also being incredibly deep. (I get this is pretty subjective but I think you know what I mean)
maroonblazer · 3 months ago
I picked up a collection of several hundred of his 4-part chorales. I like to flip through the pages and pick one seemingly at random and play it. While some hit me harder than others, nearly all of them express this "simplicity to depth" ratio.

My latest favorite: Oh God, Hear My Sighs: https://soundcloud.com/nick66/oh-god-hear-my-sighs-bach

maroonblazer commented on ChatGPT terms disallow its use in providing legal and medical advice to others   ctvnews.ca/sci-tech/artic... · Posted by u/randycupertino
Johnny555 · 3 months ago
While they aren't stopping users from getting medical advice, the new terms (which they say are pretty much the same as the old terms), seem to prohibit users from seeking medical advice even for themselves if that advice would otherwise come from a licensed health professional:

https://openai.com/en-GB/policies/usage-policies/

  Your use of OpenAI services must follow these Usage Policies:

    Protect people. Everyone has a right to safety and security. So you cannot use our services for:

      provision of tailored advice that requires a license, such as legal or medical advice, without appropriate involvement by a licensed professional

maroonblazer · 3 months ago
The important terms here are "provision" and "without appropriate involvement by a licensed professional".

Both of these, separately and taken together, indicate that the terms apply to how the output of ChatGPT is used, not a change to its output altogether.

maroonblazer commented on 2025 MacArthur Fellows   macfound.org/programs/awa... · Posted by u/bookofjoe
levocardia · 4 months ago
What does she work on? Can you explain to non-math people why her work is interesting/cool? Would also love to see more comments from people familiar with the other genius grantees' works filling us in on "here's what they do and why it's cool."
maroonblazer · 4 months ago
"Uncovering transformative connections between algebraic combinatorics and problems in other areas of math and physics."

https://www.macfound.org/fellows/class-of-2025/lauren-k-will...

maroonblazer commented on Microsoft doubles down on small modular reactors and fusion energy   techradar.com/pro/microso... · Posted by u/mikece
destitude · 5 months ago
And yet we still have no place to put that "clean" energy when it is depleted.
maroonblazer · 5 months ago
I'd rather it be stored neatly in canisters underground than floating up into the atmosphere.
maroonblazer commented on Almost anything you give sustained attention to will begin to loop on itself   henrikkarlsson.xyz/p/atte... · Posted by u/jger15
jpopesculian · 5 months ago
Reminds me of The Disappearance of Rituals by Byung-Chul Han. It's difficult to succinctly state the premise of the book, but in a way, I think its about structuring time and attention vertically on top of itself instead of horizontally across moments and subjects
maroonblazer · 5 months ago
What serendipity! The latest episode of "Philosophize This!" is titled "The Philosophy of Zen Buddhism - Byung Chul Han".[0] I'd never heard of him before. Apparently his book "The Burnout Society" is recommended reading.

[0]https://open.spotify.com/episode/3jdvGsEdrpEEjMBJG5oRaH?si=g...

maroonblazer commented on Mindless Machines, Mindless Myths   lareviewofbooks.org/artic... · Posted by u/lermontov
akomtu · 6 months ago
"If technology can be perfected to manage medicine, navigation, education, and even design, what then becomes of work? The specter is not merely unemployment—it’s meaninglessness. Once freed from the burdens of labor, what do we do?"
maroonblazer · 6 months ago
>"If technology can be perfected to manage medicine, navigation, education, and even design, what then becomes of work? The specter is not merely unemployment—it’s meaninglessness."

Only if one's identity is defined by their work.

u/maroonblazer

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