Overall, React / Typescript I heavily let Claude write the code.
The flip side of this is my server code is Ruby on Rails. Claude helps me a lot less here because this is my primary coding background. I also have a certain way I like to write Ruby. In these scenarios I'm usually asking Claude to generate tests for code I've already written and supplying lots of examples in context so the coding style matches. If I ask Claude to write something novel in Ruby I tend to use it as more of a jumping off point. It generates, I read, I refactor to my liking. Claude is still very helpful, but I tend to do more of the code writing for Ruby.
Overall, helpful for Ruby, I still write most of the code.
These are the nuances I've come to find and what works best for my coding patterns. But to your point, if you tell someone "go use Claude" and they have have a preference in how to write Ruby and they see Claude generate a bunch of Ruby they don't like, they'll likely dismiss it as "This isn't useful. It took me longer to rewrite everything than just doing it myself". Which all goes to say, time using the tools whether its Cursor, Claude Code, etc (I use OpenCode) is the biggest key but figuring out how to get over the initial hump is probably the biggest hurdle.
I put myself somewhere in the middle in terms of how great I think LLMs are for coding, but anyone that has worked with a colleague that loves LLM coding knows how horrid it is that the team has to comb through and doublecheck their commits.
In that sense it would be equally nuanced to call AI-assisted development something like "pipe bomb coding". You toss out your code into the branch, and your non-AI'd colleagues have to quickly check if your code is a harmless tube of code or yet another contraption that quickly needs defusing before it blows up in everyone's face.
Of course that is not nuanced either, but you get the point :)
Another rather interesting thing is that they tend to gravitate towards sweep the errors under the rug kind of coding which is disastrous. e.g. "return X if we don't find the value so downstream doesn't crash". These are the kind of errors no human, even a beginner on their first day learning to code, wouldn't make and are extremely annoying to debug.
Tl;dr: LLMs' tendency to treat every single thing you give it as a demo homework project