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heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
strix_varius · 3 years ago
Given that you say you're 38 and looking for a life partner, I'm baffled at your obsession with the sexual proclivities of college girls.
heattemp99 · 3 years ago
Up until a few years ago that was my favorite demographic. Got too expensive and time consuming though so I'm trying my age for a year or two.
heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
wiseowise · 3 years ago
> It's superficially easy to find a 28 year old, and would take a slight bit of effort to get with a 23 year old. And all bets are off if someone is ok going to eastern Europe or Asia.

Yeah, sure, buddy. If you think taking advantage of desperate woman from second/third world country with whom you have generational and culture gap so big that it’s like adopting a daughter for sex, who’s ready to leave with first foreigner, is the same as meeting your life’s partner at 18-20s and living and experiencing whole life with them - then good luck, you have all your chances, haha.

> "Lost your chance in life" is retarded.

Why did I even bother replying. Did you find your way from Reddit, Blind or 4chan?

heattemp99 · 3 years ago
I'm from Eastern Europe and speak the language. But beyond that, I didn't say THAT part would be easy, but it's doable, especially if you stay there instead of bringing them to the US. Personally I think it would be easier than keeping the average American 28 yr old happy.
heattemp99 commented on Lawsuit accuses Tesla of exaggerating driving range to boost EV sales   washingtonpost.com/techno... · Posted by u/pg_1234
sockaddr · 3 years ago
At this point I’m worn out, owning this thing has been a complete nightmare and a mistake. An underperforming battery is the least of my problems so far. Also there’s no point because Tesla routinely lies about repairs on my car.

It’s been in the shop for many months for dozens of mechanical and software issues over the years, I’ve been lied to too many times. The value of the car has depreciated too much for selling it to make sense and there is some convenience and value to it so I keep it.

I’ve tried the lemon law angle but since they “fix” issues with software that introduces new issues and “fix” their “fixes” it’s a moving target so I can’t qualify.

Tesla, never again.

heattemp99 · 3 years ago
Even worse, the cars are so smart you can't force a lemon law without getting caught.

I had a friend who had two transmission burn up in his new diesel f250 10+ years ago. The second one, they gave him a remanufactured transmission even though the truck was only 1 years old or so. He put on a huge tow hitch, backed up against a huge parking structure wall, and put it in reverse for 30+ minutes until the transmission overheated and melted down.

Got the truck bought back.

heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
skyyler · 3 years ago
You are bringing your anecdotes up in the face of fact, just FYI.

I've dated people with hundreds of past partners and I've dated kissless virgins. People are people.

Not everyone is promiscuous; not everyone is a prude.

heattemp99 · 3 years ago
Are you denying trends and averages exist?
heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
wiseowise · 3 years ago
> Because I don't want to feel like a fool for sticking with and supporting this woman from 40-70, when she was giving it up easily at 18-30.

Tough luck. Either find some 20 year old without 5 partners or relax and make peace with idea that you lost your chance in this life.

heattemp99 · 3 years ago
I'm 38. It's superficially easy to find a 28 year old, and would take a slight bit of effort to get with a 23 year old. And all bets are off if someone is ok going to eastern Europe or Asia. "Lost your chance in life" is retarded.
heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
racked · 3 years ago
There's another way to look at this. When your partner has had many previous partners, it means that you are extra special, because even after all that prior experience, they choose you!

And about longevity, if you ask me, the most important factors for a solid relationship are:

1. Being completely comfortable around each other. No grudges. Being able to talk about anything, even if you don't always agree.

2. (related to #1) Having a mechanism for resolving conflict. Avoiding things like the silent treatment.

heattemp99 · 3 years ago
They did not "choose you". They could not get any of the others to commit.
heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
wiseowise · 3 years ago
> I know this is a judgemental view

It’s not. Life is not rose colored. Some people get lucky and find their life partners, while others die alone.

heattemp99 · 3 years ago
Dying alone after a happy life is one thing, dying after decades of hell with a bad partner is another, and yet another to pay someone you hate until you die, like many men in California do.
heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
tehwebguy · 3 years ago
Folks! Please don't fall down the rabbit hole this 15 day old account is pushing!
heattemp99 · 3 years ago
New people aren't allowed to have opinions or take part in discussions?
heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
prettychill · 3 years ago
doubtful. I don't think many people care at all, I know I don't
heattemp99 · 3 years ago
Believe me, there are many more people that care than the other way around.
heattemp99 commented on Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desexualize it (2021)   bloodknife.com/everyone-b... · Posted by u/dogleash
idiotsecant · 3 years ago
But you say you're having trouble finding a meaningful relationship? I just can't understand why?!
heattemp99 · 3 years ago
I didn't say I had trouble finding a meaningful relationship. I said I'm having trouble finding meaning in dating 38 year old women.

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