If you could install IRIX on junk commodity hardware no one would have a reason to pay SGI $100k for one of theirs.
They worked very hard to make IRIX a competitive advantage over other UNIX vendors, but it was never a reason to buy SGI over "commodity"
If anything, IRIX was a hindrance to adoption, because UNIX was notoriously RAM-hungry, and the early 1990s had a horrible, horrible price crunch on RAM.
Early Alphastations were assuredly not VME! They were DEC's own Turbochannel.
Indigo R4xxx was a completely different architecture shared with the later SGI Indy
Both had GIO32 slots
Same case, same slots, totally different architectures inside