For example, I always had a dual goal of:
1. Gain wealth. 2. Gain knowledge and critical thinking skills.
I was trying to get rich, but only in ways which would result in me gaining more knowledge and critical thinking ability on the way. So I was going about it in a very specific way and missing out on many possible paths as a result. It's why:
- I completed my university degree instead of dropping out early and becoming a founder.
- I chose to get involved in complex open source distributed systems projects instead of building social media apps and add-ons.
- I changed companies multiple times, even when I found ones which paid a high salary for little work. There's only so much you can learn at one company in one industry. I wanted to see how software works across different industries.
- I avoided cutting corners.
In retrospect, I can only speculate that maybe I would have been successful in gaining wealth if I had been laser-focused on that and disregarded self-improvement.
Still, I think the article makes a critically important point; it's mostly about luck. In other words; the vast majority of people who were 100% laser-focused on getting rich and couldn't care less about self-improvement also failed to get rich... And these people, those who survived the ordeal, have literally nothing to show for it.
They probably blame themselves for their failures and engage in self-loathing because they're not intelligent enough to realize that it's not their fault; it's just probability.
Anyway, when it comes to social and sexual relationships; knowledge and critical thinking ability can often get you the same things which money can get you, but better quality.
The best people are naturally attracted to knowledge and intellect.
That is a pretty narrow-minded way of evaluating other people's worth...
I know they can grow out of it, I have seen it, but I don't have the time or energy for people at that stage of development.
If you mean curiosity as in academic achievement, then I think this is a deeply disrespectful way of thinking of other people.
If you mean curiosity as in having empathy for the people and world around you, and not being a narcissistic sociopath, then I probably agree with you.
But from what you wrote earlier, I get the impression you're talking about the former rather than the latter...