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devinplatt commented on Good conversations have lots of doorknobs (2022)   experimental-history.com/... · Posted by u/bertwagner
fluoridation · 9 days ago
>Givers think that conversations unfold as a series of invitations; takers think conversations unfold as a series of declarations.

I don't really understand the thesis outlined in the article. "Givers" and "takers" are defined like this, but it actually sounds like the two types of conversationalists are "actives" and "passives", where actives seek to move the conversation forward and passives let others move it forward. A giver-and-taker conversation where both participants are alternatingly active can work. The giver asks a question and the taker answers it but then adds something of their own that doesn't let the conversation grind to a halt.

Example:

A: Hey, have you heard about X? (giver, active)

B: Oh, I hate X. I think Y. (taker, active)

A: Woah, hang on. I'm not so sure about Y. (taker, active)

B: Oh, yeah? Do you think Z? (giver, active)

In my experience, the absolute worst conversations I've had were those where I felt I was the only one putting in any effort, trying to come up with topic after topic only to have them peter out in under a minute, followed by silence.

I also don't know that people are necessarily fixed in their roles, be as giver, taker, passive, or active. In fact, if I'd have to guess, an engaging conversation has the participants constantly switch roles with the flow, depending on how much they have to say on a given topic.

So I think a corollary from all this is that a conversation breaks down when an active participant switches to passive expecting the other to become active, when in fact the other person just wants to be passive, or when two passive people try to have a conversation, in which case nothing happens at all.

devinplatt · 9 days ago
On a quick skim, my interpretation is that the article critiques the classic (but simplistic) advice that asking questions and letting the other person talk more than you is the key to having a good conversation, especially to ensuring that the other person is happy with the conversation.

The classic advice is basically a caution against being a boring monologuer. And it has its merit. But this is an extra "level 2 conversationalist" lesson. It's the old: "OK remember those rules you learned in level 1? Here's when you can break them".

Th affordance analogy is that you want to give yourself and your conversation partner an abundance of options and opportunities for good conversation. Asking questions often is a way of doing that, but it's not the only way, and not all questions are equally helpful.

devinplatt commented on Good conversations have lots of doorknobs (2022)   experimental-history.com/... · Posted by u/bertwagner
markhahn · 9 days ago
why not use "affordances"? it's the correct word, and even though it's low-frequency, wouldn't that pull people into the article?
devinplatt · 9 days ago
The article mentions affordances. I assume the title uses doorknobs because that's a more familiar word as you point out.
devinplatt commented on How to maintain good vision amidst the myopia epidemic   ssathe.substack.com/p/vis... · Posted by u/plun9
jaggederest · a month ago
Here's a couple from a random search for the convenience of the forum:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29371008/

https://reviewofmm.com/light-as-a-tool-for-myopia-control/

I can't find the site that I read a while ago, it was very similar to the myticker.com site that was posted the other day for heart disease but focused on myopia.

devinplatt · a month ago
Thanks for sharing this! I've never heard of this research, but it sounds very promising.

I also found this Guardian article from a Google search: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/mar/01/shortsighted-t...

devinplatt commented on U.S. government takes 10% stake in Intel   cnbc.com/2025/08/22/intel... · Posted by u/givemeethekeys
ivewonyoung · 4 months ago
Just one instance.

https://fedscoop.com/problem-project-threatens-progress-soci...

> The program, called the Disability Case Processing System, or DCPS, was designed to improve case processing and enhance customer service. But six years and $288 million later the program has “delivered limited functionality and faced schedule delays as well as increasing stakeholder concerns

For the main system they're still using COBOL, which has no Date data type, causing issues even in 2025.

devinplatt · 4 months ago
Have you read the book "Recoding America"?

I have a feeling you might enjoy that book as it goes into a LOT of detail about government dysfunction with respect to software.

I found the book eye opening and personally it provided me with some new perspective.

devinplatt commented on U.S. government takes 10% stake in Intel   cnbc.com/2025/08/22/intel... · Posted by u/givemeethekeys
ivewonyoung · 4 months ago
One big difference is management control. People feel that government administered services tend to have poor management and citizen services more often than not. One big example is the DMV since almost every has experience dealing with it, long queue times are almost universal because no one gives a crap and it's very hard to fire a government employee. Or the passport issuance, or applying for permits. Or unemployment benefits, the list goes on and on.

Imagine if the DMV and passport services had even the possibility of competition like a private company has. You bet all of a sudden the service would get much faster and better and with fewer mistakes and red tape with the same or fewer number of employees. Or someone would set up a competitor and imagine how many people would even pay extra just to not waste several hours of their time.

It's tax payer money so there is a lot more waste than even at big private companies. For example, the costs to just administer and operate the social security administration(not including any money paid out to recipients) is $15 billion dollars with a big B. There is no incentive for anyone to save the tax payer any money and there would be a huge pushback from govt contractors, unions and employeees. See how much hate DOGE gets for even proposing cuts or higher efficiencies.

Any large IT project in the government in almost any country and at any goverment costs huge amounts while not returning much value if any. Look at the state and costs of local metro stations and trains in almost any city.

devinplatt · 4 months ago
That's interesting example to choose, as I've actually heard often that the Social Security administration is an example of an efficient government administration.

For example, a quick Google search shows administrative overhead as around 0.5% of benefits: https://www.cbpp.org/research/social-security/top-ten-facts-...

devinplatt commented on Intel CEO Letter to Employees   morethanmoore.substack.co... · Posted by u/fancy_pantser
wahnfrieden · 5 months ago
Heaven forbid the workers within or across any of these companies also consider coordinating on anything
devinplatt · 5 months ago
That's basically what the founders of Intel did, when they left Shockley to start Fairchild: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traitorous_eight
devinplatt commented on Death by AI   davebarry.substack.com/p/... · Posted by u/ano-ther
devinplatt · 5 months ago
This reminds me a lot of the special policies Wikipedia has developed through experience about sensitive topics, like biographies of living persons, deaths, etc.
devinplatt commented on Ask HN: Who wants to be hired? (February 2025)    · Posted by u/whoishiring
devinplatt · 10 months ago

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Notable experience: bookkeeper for Segment (YC S11) for 2 years (eventually helping them transition to an in-house team as they grew). Also worked with Stellar Development Foundation and Sense HQ.

We’re looking for an additional client. With an expected workload of ~1-2 hours a day, at ~$50 / hour.

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devinplatt commented on Amazon tells employees to return to office five days a week   cnbc.com/2024/09/16/amazo... · Posted by u/jbredeche
belval · a year ago
I like working there, but Amazon definitely has the worst in-office accomodations. No snacks, no free coffee, for-profit (like 4-5$ for a chocolate bar) vending machines on every second floor, no cafeterias in most building and when they have one it's a hole-in-the-wall that microwaves stuff (except Seattle).

In the original RTO email they even pointed the importance of employee spending money in the surrounding restaurants to support the downtime economy as if I should feel personally invested in spending 30$/meal on an overpriced burger for lunch.

devinplatt · a year ago
When I worked at Amazon, I also was tired of paying for expensive lunches available nearby. But I didn't always have time to make pack lunches.

So I ordered canned soup, on Amazon, to be shipped to the office mailroom. Then picked up the soups and kept them in the drawer by my desk.

devinplatt commented on Compression Dictionary Transport   datatracker.ietf.org/doc/... · Posted by u/tosh
wmf · a year ago
Interesting that they removed SDCH in 2017 and now they're adding it back. Let's hope this version sticks.
devinplatt · a year ago
I was curious about this given what happened with SDCH.

Here is what Wikipedia[0] says

> Due to the diffing results and the data being compressed with the same coding, SDCH dictionaries aged relatively quickly and compression density became quickly worse than with the usual non-dictionary compression such as GZip. This created extra effort in production to keep the dictionaries fresh and reduced its applicability. Modern dictionary coding such as Shared Brotli has a more effective solution for this that fixes the dictionary aging problem.

This new proposal uses Brotli.

[0]: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/SDCH

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