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alaithea commented on “Nothing” is the secret to structuring your work   vangemert.dev/blog/nothin... · Posted by u/spmvg
SilverSlash · a month ago
A thing which happens to me very often: I realize I'm experiencing a very real visceral discomfort nagging at me in the back of my mind.

It happens because I will have ctrl+c'd something several minutes ago. My mind subconsciously "holds" onto the info that I have text copied in my clipboard. It's only when I ctrl+v it and consciously discard it does the nagging go away.

I have no idea why it happens or if others experience this too. But I fully agree with the author about starting from nothing and getting rid of the clutter you think isn't bother you but which you're probably subconsciously holding onto.

alaithea · a month ago
I have the opposite problem. I often forget what the last thing I copied was, or whether I copied it, and have to go back multiple times to get the copy + paste achieved. A clipboard history would help me, too, but thus far I've been unable to make using one a permanent part of my toolkit (I'd have to remember the history exists).

That said, copying and pasting (and the attendant switching between windows/tabs) does often feel like one of the biggest cognitive frictions I have to deal with in any given day. That's a nut I'd like to crack one day.

One thing that has helped me the most in that regard is Alfred's multi-clipboard feature, where I can append to clipboard, which means I can copy-paste N links in N+1 actions instead of N*2 actions.

alaithea commented on “Nothing” is the secret to structuring your work   vangemert.dev/blog/nothin... · Posted by u/spmvg
LocalPCGuy · a month ago
The author found something that works for them, but for some folks who have working memory issues (i.e. ADHD), using visual cues as reminders is one of the top tips in ways to address the issue. This can seem messy to some, but for those that need it, it is a lifeline. As a contrast to the author, if I put something in a drawer, it might be months before I remember it, even if it was something that absolutely needed to be dealt with (and yes, there will often be consequences of having not done the thing, and this has to be balanced against leaving everything out which isn't good either). Electronically, if I close Slack/Teams, I might go hours before remembering to open it and check in - maybe great for focus, not so great for team work.

I've found that for me, spreading things out and having visual cues allows my brain to relax and focus on the task at hand, because I know I don't have to use a memory slot to remember to do something that I don't have a visual cue for, because every so often I see that cue and know it isn't going anywhere until I have time to deal with it. Almost the exact opposite of the anxiety the author describes. (And before it's suggested, yes, I also take notes and put important tasks there, but it isn't as helpful for my brain to let something go compared to having a visual cue.)

alaithea · a month ago
This. My very first thought upon reading this article was "this author does not have ADHD." I've achieved one of my most productive setups ever by keeping more browser tabs open, and using tab groups to organize them. When I need to switch to one of a handful of projects I'm working on, the tabs in that group help hydrate my memory space around the project.

I work better with a conceptual (but not actual) blank slate, by asking myself each day what the top three things are that I need to get done that day, and not allowing an ever-growing TODO list to get in the way of seeing what's important.

alaithea commented on Autism should not be treated as a single condition   economist.com/science-and... · Posted by u/bookofjoe
ceejayoz · 3 months ago
> Robert F. Kennedy junior, America’s health secretary, thinks that autism has become an “epidemic” in his country. His concern stems from figures from the Centres for Disease Control and Prevention, which shows that the condition now affects 32 per 1,000 eight-year-old children in America (see chart). That is in contrast, he says, with the near-absence of the condition in his childhood. Mr Kennedy was born in the 1950s, and studies estimate a prevalence of autism to around two to four per 10,000 in the 1960s.

I'd note that RFK Jr.'s very own aunt was lobotomized then hidden away for something that sounds a lot like autism if diagnosed today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosemary_Kennedy

alaithea · 3 months ago
It could be, but the Wikipedia article notes that she may have also suffered a birth injury from hypoxia.

Rosemary's story is so tragic and heartbreaking. Her life was filled with what would today be considered multiple instances of medical malpractice, and heartless, unethical behavior on the part of the Kennedy family. Her father didn't even tell her mother about the lobotomy until after it was done.

Incredible that she lived to the age of 86. The nuns taking care of her might have actually cared, which could hardly be said of the Kennedy family.

alaithea commented on Tips for stroke-surviving software engineers   blog.j11y.io/2025-10-29_s... · Posted by u/padolsey
jacquesm · 5 months ago
Agile isn't sustainable for younger people either. But they just get replaced by more younger people. Burn-out in IT is way too common.
alaithea · 5 months ago
Since tech has largely stopped hiring younger people, sounds like a problem.
alaithea commented on Be Worried   dlo.me/archives/2025/10/0... · Posted by u/theli0nheart
criley2 · 5 months ago
When I look at the state of how humans have manipulated each other, how the media is noxious propaganda, how businesses have perfected emotional and psychological manipulation of us to sell us crap and control our opinions, I don't think AI's influence is worse. In fact I think it's better. When I have a spicy political opinion, I can either go get validated in an echo chamber like reddit or newsmedia, or let ChatGPT tell me I'm a f'n idiot and spell out a much more rational take.

Until the models are diluted to serve the true purpose of the thoughtcontrol already in fully effect in non-AI media, they're simply better for humanity.

alaithea · 5 months ago
ChatGPT has been shown to spend much more time validating people's poor ideas than it does refuting them, even in cases where specific guardrails have supposedly been implemented, such as to avoid encouraging self-harm. See recent articles about AI usage inducing god-complexes and psychoses, for instance[1]. Validation of the user giving the prompt is what it's designed to do, after all. AI seems to be objectively worse for humanity than what we've had before it.

[1]: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/urban-survival/20250...

alaithea commented on Be Worried   dlo.me/archives/2025/10/0... · Posted by u/theli0nheart
joshgree8859 · 5 months ago
What new human madness has ever been stopped?
alaithea · 5 months ago
Human cloning, nuclear bombs (other than for sabre rattling)... to name a couple.
alaithea commented on Be Worried   dlo.me/archives/2025/10/0... · Posted by u/theli0nheart
kqr · 5 months ago
I think the solution is to not aim to go online to "consume content". Instead, go online to learn new techniques and investigate well-reasoned opinions.

Generic "content" is that which fills out the space between the advertisements. That's never been good for you, whether written by humans or matrix multiplication.

alaithea · 5 months ago
Respectfully, I think you're missing the point that this is a societal rather than an individual concern. What will the average person's response to AI be? Probably to not recognize it, let alone spurn it. The cumulative effects of your neighbors, particularly the young ones who will grow up amidst this, or the old and gullible, being led along by computers over years is the thing you need to be more concerned about.
alaithea commented on Scammed out of $130K via fake Google call, spoofed Google email and auth sync   bewildered.substack.com/p... · Posted by u/davidscoville
throw_m239339 · 6 months ago
It's my understanding that emails have headers, just like http responses, and the app might have displayed that fake header instead of verifying the provenance of the email and displaying where it actually came from. So it is a UI/UX issue.
alaithea · 6 months ago
Why email clients have started hiding/not providing access to headers is beyond me. It seems like an anti-pattern. There have been many times recently where I've wanted to check the headers because an email was suspicious, only to find I couldn't.
alaithea commented on Countrywide natural experiment links built environment to physical activity   nature.com/articles/s4158... · Posted by u/Anon84
sersi · 7 months ago
At what age did you start letting your kids run errands or walk to school by themselves?
alaithea · 7 months ago
Mine walked to school (< 10 minute walk) at about second grade. Running errands at about fourth.
alaithea commented on Countrywide natural experiment links built environment to physical activity   nature.com/articles/s4158... · Posted by u/Anon84
mothballed · 7 months ago
An issue for kids nowadays is being outside unattended is basically illegal (for instance IL / Chicago, minimum age unattended is 14). Therefore they might get more activity in the country on a bigger acreage alongside an unwalkable road, than they would in the city in a walkable area, unlike an adult.

As soon as you get near people, if there is a enough, a Karen will rat the kid out as soon as they touch public property and maybe before it. They are only safe from CPS tyrants when they are out of sight.

alaithea · 7 months ago
Your concerns are extremely valid, but it is not _that_ bad in many places in America. I relocated my family specifically so that my kids could have a walkable community to live in, and since then (about five years), we've had no issues with them getting to schools, parks, the library, friends' houses, and downtown shops on their own.

That said, we live in the inner district of a small city that was settled in the mid 19th century, so it has a street grid, alleys, uninterrupted sidewalks, etc.... everything that makes a place as safe as possible in this day and age for kids to get around without getting hit by a car. (One exception being dedicated biking infrastructure, which would be awesome.)

u/alaithea

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