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aethrum commented on My stages of learning to be a socially normal person   sashachapin.substack.com/... · Posted by u/eatitraw
Aurornis · a month ago
This post wasn't what I was expecting from the "socially normal" title. While there is a lot of self-reflection and growth in this piece, a lot of the points felt more like learning how to charm, manipulate, and game social interactions.

Look at the first two subheadings:

> 1: Connecting with people is about being a dazzling person

> 2: Connecting with people is about playing their game

The post felt like a rollercoaster between using tricks to charm and manipulate, and periods of genuinely trying to learn how to be friends with people.

I don't want to disparage the author as this is a personal journey piece and I appreciate them sharing it. However this did leave me slightly uneasy, almost calling back to earlier days of the internet when advice about "social skills" often meant reductively thinking about other people, assuming you can mind-read them to deconstruct their mindset (the section about identifying people who feel underpraised, insecure, nervous,) and then leverage that to charm them (referred to as "dancing to the music" in this post).

Maybe the takeaway I'd try to give is to read this as an interesting peek into someone's mind, but not necessarily great advice for anyone else's situation or a healthy way to view relationships.

aethrum · a month ago
He seems like an odd duck.
aethrum commented on Ask HN: Would you use an app that helps you collect and revisit favorite quotes?    · Posted by u/relaxy
relaxy · a month ago
What would be a question?
aethrum · a month ago
Woah.
aethrum commented on Bertie the Brain   en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ber... · Posted by u/breppp
aethrum · 2 months ago
Man Canada used to be so impressive. We need to get back there
aethrum commented on Attention lapses due to sleep deprivation due to flushing fluid from brain   news.mit.edu/2025/your-br... · Posted by u/gmays
cdelsolar · 2 months ago
I slept around 5 hours last night split up into two periods because my baby daughter woke up crying from fever and wanted to play / was hallucinating / etc. She's totally fine now but I am wondering if there is a correlation between dementia and having kids.
aethrum · 2 months ago
Probably negatively correlated cause you have someone to interact with in your old age/better chance of community :)
aethrum commented on AI-generated 'poverty porn' fake images being used by aid agencies   theguardian.com/global-de... · Posted by u/KolmogorovComp
autoexec · 2 months ago
I can understand that there are some good arguments for using AI generated pics. Using AI means not having to pay for photographers who'd either have to spend a lot of time taking or staging pictures, and not having to pay for their travel expenses which means that money can be spent on aid instead of marketing. Also it can feel a bit exploitative to photograph vulnerable people, especially children.

As long as the images they end up with accurately reflect the situation on the ground and the use of AI is transparent it seems like a good idea to use AI for attention grabbing images and supplement with candid photos from aid workers who aren't professional photographers.

aethrum · 2 months ago
But its not... real.
aethrum commented on Astronomers 'image' a mysterious dark object in the distant Universe   mpg.de/25518363/1007-asph... · Posted by u/b2ccb2
hearsathought · 2 months ago
Not a "distant universe" but our universe distant in time ( aka our universe in the past when it was younger ).

The title reads like astronomers found a mysterious dark object in another universe. Like a distant solar system or a distant galaxy.

Or am I misunderstanding the findings here?

aethrum · 2 months ago
no it doesn't
aethrum commented on Jane Goodall has died   latimes.com/obituaries/st... · Posted by u/jaredwiener
mapmeld · 3 months ago
I really appreciated her speaking to young people, even riding the NYC subway for the first time to record "Subway Takes" last year: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CAkwo6JPV00

She also was speaking on a panel just a week ago: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Df0GWlZm3gk

aethrum · 3 months ago
crazy how you can just be this alive one year and then dead the next. I get 91 is old, but still
aethrum commented on iPhone dumbphone   stopa.io/post/297... · Posted by u/joshmanders
adamors · 3 months ago
I use Burnout Buddy, it can block both apps and websites, you can set up custom rules, time based, usage based or triggered by Shortcuts (for instance I have one set up to block Reddit when I enter the gym).
aethrum · 3 months ago
Woah this is nice! And pretty generous free app
aethrum commented on The beauty of a text only webpage   albanbrooke.com/the-beaut... · Posted by u/speckx
1024kb · 4 months ago
I quite enjoy reading Chris Siebenmann's blog [https://utcc.utoronto.ca/~cks/] which is very light on theming, as I really like the aesthetic. I have to say though, if all blogs were like this the Internet might seem a bit boring, so I chose to give my own blog some personality.
aethrum · 4 months ago
What do you like about reading this? Its so hard to read for me on a 27 inch monitor in a full screen browser window, lol

u/aethrum

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