Or the plague and the subsequent Arab invasions. The empire was rebounded several times from near collapse after the 300s
Or the plague and the subsequent Arab invasions. The empire was rebounded several times from near collapse after the 300s
https://www.elisamotterle.com/galateo-del-tu-del-lei-e-del-v...
https://www.treccani.it/magazine/atlante/cultura/Diamoci_del...
Beware the treccani is the most used/influential encyclopaedia in italy, so I’d tend to say that i trust them a lot
> In antichità, quando si parlava latino, le formule di cortesia non esistevano … L’usanza del Voi nasce insieme a una nuova formula politica: la tetrarchia introdotta nel 293 da Diocleziano.
It was an innovation in Romance that took place centuries after Caesar and most of the Imperial era. Again, there is ample scholarly literature on this, so no need to resort to popular references like encyclopedias.
There is a wide literature on Latin forms of address. Eleanor Dickey's monograph published by Oxford University Press is a good survey.
Maybe I should completely ditch it, and use the informal one with everyone new, just with the hopes of building immediate rapport. I must not be the only one to hate it, and surely those people who would mind me using the informal one are not worth my time in the first place.
Luckily we don't have gendered pronouns though, so we can avoid that problem altogether.
I think in the end best and most scalable language is the one that avoids having any implications in the "you" or "pronouns". We are all humans after all.
I'm in a country with this distinction, too, and I don't like strangers addressing me with the informal just like that. Every sociolinguistic setting is different, but using just the informal might not automatically create rapport but the opposite. Saying people like myself aren't worth your time sounds like sour grapes, and it might rob you of some opportunities.
For me it’s the fact that these days it’s very inconsistent. The “rules” were pretty clear 20-30+ years ago. Now it’s a bit of a mess and there is a lot of overlap.
> Saying people like myself aren't worth your time sounds like sour grapes
I mean.. you’re somebody who just claimed that a random person is autistic because he doesn’t conform with some social norm you find to be somehow extremely important (specifically) in your environment. So it might not be such a bad heuristic.