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FundThrowaway commented on Anxiety and burnout: why kids are consumed with worry   vox.com/first-person/2019... · Posted by u/petethomas
ergothus · 7 years ago
I watched Stranger Things for the first time a few months ago (I know, I know, but at least I did).

I cried. Not at the scenes I think most people might. I cried because there was a scene where it was so obvious that the older brother was being treated as the "Man of the House".

I'm over 40, and grew up as the older-by-5 years sibling with a single mom. I had no idea I had all of this repressed trauma from being old enough to understand I was being given all of this responsibility, but no way to actually achieve it, or even a way to know if I was doing well enough. So I could never DO well enough, despite always wanting to.

Despite this, I grew up considered a pretty laid back, Zen guy. Until I got married. Now I'm a constant ball of stress. I'm unhealthy, and my sleep is so messed up that "good" nights are those that are less bad. Doctors tell me I should exercise more. All of this despite being financially successful and very happily married. I constantly feel like disaster looms around every corner. I'm aware of how lucky I am and how I screw this up (or just have it screwed up for me) at any moment, and I feel like I can't every fully relax because _I have to be responsible_.

Another poster here generalized beyond this article to say that we as a nation (and perhaps world) are at a high level of anxiety, and we reflect it in everything and kids pick up on that. I think they're very, very right. I find myself reflecting way too often that I'm glad I don't have kids - they won't have to live with the mess society is generating that I can't fix. Because no matter what I'm doing, I can never do enough to fix it. And I'm very, very tired.

FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
I find myself struggling with somewhat related situation, everything in my life is going good, happily married and a great job that I love however I find myself wanting to watch the world burn, I get excited about the prospect of war and the collapse of society. I keep it under wraps and don't mention it to anyone but I'm really not sure what's wrong with me.
FundThrowaway commented on Ask HN: How old were the most talented software engineers you've met?    · Posted by u/diehunde
closeparen · 7 years ago
How does that work exactly? If no one is willing to pay higher salaries then the salaries aren’t higher. Senior people would presumably take junior pay over unemployment.
FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
Junior developer salaries here are low enough that people just change industry. It's also not just about the salary but the way that they work. That all being said there are start ups out here that do look for experienced devs and pay accordingly, my previous comments mostly relate to large local businesses.
FundThrowaway commented on Ask HN: How old were the most talented software engineers you've met?    · Posted by u/diehunde
diab0lic · 7 years ago
40+

I always wonder about ageism in tech referenced regularly here. Without a doubt the rockstars I know are more experienced and consequently older. If you exclude older software engineers you're probably excluding the best talent and thus can't claim to hire only the top x% of talent.

Note: I don't belong to this group in age or talent.

FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
I work out in Asia and over here a big reason for ageism in tech is a misunderstanding of development talent, there is a belief that coders are coders and that's all there is to it, young coders tend to be willing to work longer hours and basically work until they burn out so management sees them as the superior option since salaries and benefits are lower.

edit: Since I'm getting down voted for whatever reason here's an article that is along similar lines https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2018-05-02/china-s-t...

FundThrowaway commented on The Worst Interface Ever: The Self-Destruct Switch (2004)   asktog.com/columns/065Wor... · Posted by u/waterhouse
tempestn · 7 years ago
Ha, I can't count the number of times I've said to my kids some version of, "Don't push buttons if you don't know what they do!" I've mostly drilled it out of them by 6 and 4, but it was a process.

Of course the new manifestation of childhood curiosity was my six year old daughter testing out the piece of sandpaper that came with a craft set she got for Christmas... on our kitchen table. (Fortunately it was already a bit "rustic".)

Can't blame them though—I clearly remember at that age putting the garden hose into the dryer vent, with no clue what would happen. Dryer was in the basement too. I recall being mostly bemused by my parents' reactions. (It was on for quite a while too—I think it flooded more than one room.)

FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
"Don't push buttons if you don't know what they do!"

That statement makes me a little sad, it's pretty much the exact opposite of the way I was brought up and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be where I am without the freedom of curiosity I was given at home. The general rule was if it's not going to kill me or maim me then I could have it.

FundThrowaway commented on Gatwick Airport: Drone sightings cause delays   bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england... · Posted by u/gadders
bradleybuda · 7 years ago
> All of England is only one and a half times as large as Greater Los Angeles County

What? That's not even close to true by land area or population.

FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
Greater Los Angeles - 87,490 km2 England - 130,279 km2

87,490 * 1.5 = 131,235

Pretty close if you ask me.

FundThrowaway commented on After Journalist’s Alleged Murder, Tech Execs Distance Themselves from Saudis   buzzfeednews.com/amphtml/... · Posted by u/djrobstep
firasd · 7 years ago
I was also suspicious of MBS' 'anti-corruption' drive last year. There is no doubt that there's corruption among the rich and powerful but a sudden purge seemed more like a power consolidation move https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2017_Saudi_Arabian_purge
FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
An anti-corruption drive is nearly always just a power shift. Look at the various ones in China, it's never about corruption and more about one branch of the political elite taking out another.
FundThrowaway commented on Drone Hobbyists Angered by Congress Ending the Aerial Wild West   bloomberg.com/news/articl... · Posted by u/antr
FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
Almost every time we have a BBQ or other outside event someone buzzes a drone overhead and just sits there watching us. Almost every time I go out hiking I hear the high pitched whine of a drone flying around the country park. It seems no matter where I go there is someone flying one. They are a total nuisance, create tons of noise pollution in areas that are usually quite tranquil, invade privacy and just annoy me all around to be honest.
FundThrowaway commented on China’s all-seeing surveillance network   mobile.abc.net.au/news/20... · Posted by u/playpause
yurie_breschnef · 7 years ago
I think this is a horrible idea.

Just imagine how many times we have been wrong in our judgement of the behaviour of citizens. What would the social credit score of Ghandi or Martin Luther Kind have been, at the time of their prominent actions?

We have proven time and time again that there is no sure way to judge how "social and acceptable" something is, and the value of a behaviour to our society.

What is seen as "unsocial" today may be applauded by historians in the future.

FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
I'm pretty sure that's half of the point, stop any radicals from forming large followings.
FundThrowaway commented on Twilight Of The Terminal: The Disruption Of Bloomberg L.P   cbinsights.com/research/r... · Posted by u/anonu
a_imho · 7 years ago
defacto standard for professional traders and finance

What do professional traders do nowadays? My impression was it is already bots talking to bots and/or index funds outperforming/on par with actively managed funds.

FundThrowaway · 7 years ago
This whole index funds outperform actively managed funds claim needs a lot more context. I always see adverts from people like Vanguard claiming such things but they are always just talking about raw returns they never take into account risk adjusted returns or the like. Not all returns are the same, you need to think about the risk taken to get those returns, a market neutral actively managed portfolio may return less than a passive fund but it's volatility will be much lower to.

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