Programming language choice is a matter of taste to a large degree so it's possible the different people value different traits of languages.
"When in doubt leave it out", is a design decision that can be taken to extremes in some cases and many of us feel crippled and don't enjoy such languages. There can be languages that provide powerful abstractions and rely on its users' trust to use them appropriately. Of coyrde, like every tool it can be misused but that should not be the baseline we use for comparison. Because surely we can find dreadful code in every language.
As a closing paragraph I'll just say that Scala 3 is very nicely designed language that simplifies a lot of the sticky point with Scala 2 and allows for a nice blend of OOP and functional programming. Functional programming in Scala is opt-in and progressive and is a good choice for greenfield projects on the JVM. Also a final note, tooling for Scala and Scala 3 specifically has improved a lot to the point where it just works without arcane invitations of the past. Overly confident opinions to the contrary for people who haven't touched the language since 2018, scala 2.11 and sbt 0.13 are quite out of touch.
Translation: I think I'm better off using needlessly complex overengineered monstrosity that takes insane effort to do even the simplest of things, and that still gives me no actual guarantees, than a simple system that has been battle tested over decades of actual hardcore industrial use.
In fact, functional effects provide another elegant solution to problems requiring structured concurrency. You might like it, you might not. But there are many engineers in the Scala community who were bitten by the exact issues of actor deadlocking / difficulty of debugging compared to functional effects that refactored enterprise codebases from Akka (Scala actors) to functional effects.
"A simple system that has been battle tested over decades of actual hardcore industrial use". The JVM certainly is not far from that.