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Ask HN: Would your life be better if you stopped visiting HN?
I've been reflecting on my online consumption habits, and I'm starting to question whether HN is a net positive in my life.

It's by far the most intelligent and interesting community I engage with, but if I'm being honest I think it has just made me cynical about technology, entrepreneurship and my own career.

I think my life would improve if I stopped visiting HN (and Reddit/YouTube/etc.), but it's definitely not easy to shake the addiction and the 'fear of missing out'.

That's my thoughts on the topic, but I'll put the question to you... Would your life be better if you stopped visiting HN?

Yhippa · 2 years ago
There are probably only 3 social networks I've gotten a lot of value from: YouTube, Reddit, and HN. HN has contributed massively to my career by exposing me to so many different ideas and concepts.

It actually filled a void that Slashdot left. Something happened around the time I started visiting HN more where ./ became this really weird echochamber and hot takes were abound. Believe it or not, it seems to me like HN is one of the few places where there is a lot of self-moderated and rational discourse.

sosodev · 2 years ago
Yes.

From my perspective the conversation here is generally awful. It’s the same tired faux genius rhetoric over and over again. How many times will I read “these companies are just way too bloated” as the top comment on a layoff post? It’s always written with perfect confidence as if the commenter understands the chaos of the tech industry better than anybody else. People upvote it because it sounds good without ever thinking critically about what they just read. Well written, confident, and reassuring to me (as one of the few competent tech employees)? Upvote!

How many times will people reply to the top comments with some vaguely related point they desperately want to make and that they feel is worth hijacking your attention for? Every single time.

How many times will a top comment ask questions that are clearly answered in the link? We’re not even allowed to tell them to RTFA because that’s against HN rules. Posting the comment isn’t though.

I stick around for those rare diamonds in the rough. The moments where an actual, proven genius logs in to post their yearly comment. Usually because somebody posted a link to their work and the top comment has hopelessly misunderstood it.

mcbishop · 2 years ago
I think it's a testament to HN that your very-critical comment is at the top. I generally love HN and the discussions here. My life is better with it.
danielmarkbruce · 2 years ago
I know it's just one example, but you'll keep reading about the tech bloat while the companies are bloated. No one is pretending to be a genius, they just worked in it. The upvotes come from people who worked in it. They aren't random outsiders, they actually worked in these places. Big tech has been bloated for a long time.
sosodev · 2 years ago
Yeah, I’m sure the guy at the bottom of Google’s org chart knows for a fact that Discord is bloated.
thot_experiment · 2 years ago
I feel like you're really focusing on the negatives, HN has a lot of great content and I generally find it to be a big positive but it's not like, very positive on the whole, I just feel like you can mostly ignore the bad parts and have fun with the good (and I do occasionally engage with the bad too).

You're going to have to wade through garbage for high quality content pretty much everywhere, and HN has been consistent and valuable to me over the years for sure.

marklubi · 2 years ago
> I stick around for those rare diamonds in the rough.

It used to be that most posts were worthwhile. Sad to see what it's devolved to.

I'm aghast at how many comments these days are against a startup/company doing well. It used to be Startup News, I think the branding change was the turning point.

muzani · 2 years ago
I noticed the same phenomenon. But there's a hack - look at the middle or near the bottom. On especially heated topics, I might scroll all the way to the bottom first.

I thought one topic was pretty amusing, where people were discussing financial planning for millionaires. The top was full of cynical replies or reddit style rants by people who aren't millionaires, like maxing out insurance. The middle had people who did make their money and lost it. The bottom-ish had the actual rich folk.

You gotta search for the geniuses. 90% of people are in the bottom 90%. Someone asks for the key to happiness. Your average person will say "diet, exercise, sleep". This is insightful to those at the bottom, and those who are above average won't disagree. Then some dude comes along and says "life is suffering" and rants about why chasing luxury is going to make you unhappy. That dude is going to be downvoted or ignored.

mouzogu · 2 years ago
> It’s the same tired faux genius rhetoric over and over again.

> I stick around for those rare diamonds in the rough.

> The moments where an actual, proven genius logs in

so you are the one to judge who is a genius :). a little condescending?

imo hn has become quora-ified. anecdotal commentary has become common.

subtra3t · 2 years ago
Unpopular opinion but I think unproven unbacked anecdotes need to be punished, here and elsewhere. In my experience many of them could be easily debunked by someone with a deep understanding of the subject being talked about, but newcomers are given the wrong impression.
latexr · 2 years ago
> We’re not even allowed to tell them to RTFA because that’s against HN rules.

Yes you are, it’s not against the rules. From the guidelines:

> Please don't comment on whether someone read an article. "Did you even read the article? It mentions that" can be shortened to "The article mentions that".

It’s right there as an example of what you can respond: “The article mentions that”.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Dead Comment

GianFabien · 2 years ago
I try to limit myself to the first 3 pages once a day. I keep coming back to HN because over the years I have found more great information on it than anywhere else. There are now several blogs that I semi-regularly follow after having been introduced to them from HN.

However, I do have a gripe. Many posts negatively impact upon my self-esteem. Reading HN I get the impression that there are lots and lots of folks earning huge salaries at very important companies. Lots of others have founded startups, raised $millions and in many cases have had massive windfall exits.

CM30 · 2 years ago
> However, I do have a gripe. Many posts negatively impact upon my self-esteem. Reading HN I get the impression that there are lots and lots of folks earning huge salaries at very important companies. Lots of others have founded startups, raised $millions and in many cases have had massive windfall exits.

This is basically the worst part of any social networking service now. They highlight the breakout success stories, geniuses and outliers so much that it becomes easy to assume everyone else is doing much better than you are.

For average Joes it's seeing the influencers and celebrities on Instagram and TikTok, for developers it's Hacker News and Reddit.

joshstrange · 2 years ago
I doubt it would be better.

I’ve said for many years now that my job is primary knowing what’s possible even if I don’t necessarily know exactly how to do it (today).

By reading HN nearly daily I keep my finger on the pulse of tech, or at least the parts of tech that most directly affect me. Countless times I’ve been able to say “oh, I saw a library/saas/etc that does what we need” in a meeting and it’s directly led to starting my own company. When a company came to me asking for software I was able to say “yes that’s possible and I’m capable of delivering it”, in great part due to following advancements/products/etc in tech even when I hadn’t used some of those specific tools before.

Personally I shine the brightest when I can pair my knowledge of technology with someone who is a subject matter expert (outside of tech) to create something they didn’t think was possible. I’ve often thought my dream job would be to go into non-tech companies, learn enough about their industry, examine their processes, and then suggest and/or implement solutions (revolving around the use of technology) to improve them.

I don’t know of any place, other than HN, that has high quality posts and discussions about technology and new things coming out.

sitkack · 2 years ago
Yes.

No doubt the community is intelligent, but compassion, honesty, intellectual honesty and willingness to accept other peoples viewpoint (and they yours) are more important.

Many people come to HN, myself included to distract themselves from other things. They bring that frustration with them. If I were to make a forum, it would be structured much differently. The first to post sets the tone of the "discussion" if we call it that. It is often a hoard of frustrated people (mostly men) screaming at each other in rhetorical combat.

I really suggest people set their maxvisit and minaway settings. My minaway is 180 minutes. I am ratcheting down my maxvisit.

PurpleRamen · 2 years ago
How much of what you get from HN today has real worth for your life and/or career?

I think every community and platform has a limited growth-value for their users. At some point, you've seen it all, read it all, know all the shit and giggles going around the platform. And at this point, you shift into the doomscrolling-mode and start consuming stuff for the sake of consumption, and to find the one gem of the day which justifies the time wasted on the platform today.

dr_kiszonka · 2 years ago
By not quitting you are missing out on something else too. I quit playing an addictive RPG game on my phone in the evenings (no pay-to-win IAP fortunately!). Soon thereafter, I came across an interesting hobby and now focus on it in my spare time.

FB was making me feel annoyed. Quitting it helped a lot. With HN it is a bit harder because some content here is actually useful. I find avoiding comments on submissions about layoffs, Google, Meta, Apple, lawsuits, etc. helps me be more positive.

Throwawayh89 · 2 years ago
I’m developing a similar approach to Reddit (in theory)

Saying these sites are great resources for information, but not great places to express emotion.

mejutoco · 2 years ago
IMHO Reddit is so manipulated nowadays I am not sure it is a great source of information.
hammyhavoc · 2 years ago
I don't think it would make much of a difference. It's assuming HN makes any impact to my life as it is. If it wasn't HN then it'd probably be a video game or some other "time-wasting" activity in my downtime.

I gave HN a break for a bit, didn't make any difference. It's like having an interactive newspaper of news I might be interested in when there's not much happening with my RSS reader.