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Posted by u/MarcellusDrum 3 years ago
Ask HN: How do you deal with slight memory impairment?
I'm in my 20s, and have been noticing that I have a bad memory. I don't forget anything major or concerning, but its obvious my memory is below average. It is starting to cause a bit of a problem at work.

I started to write a lot of things down, but the problem is that I can't always anticipate what I to need to remember later on. So what tools/methods do you use to help you overcome this?

pgroves · 3 years ago
I've never had that great of a memory. The upside is that you can have a bad memory and good note taking skills and be more effective than the 'good memory' people. Really it's just that I forget in a day what other people forget in a week so it's not that big of a gap. But some considerations:

1. Put everything in the issue tracker that you can. This includes notes on what actually happened when you did the work. Include technical details.

2. Try to push everyone else to use the issue tracker. Also makes you sound like the professional in the room.

3. Have a very lightweight note taking mechanism and use it as much as possible. I am gud at vim so I use the Voom plugin (which just treats markdown headings as an outline but it's enough to store a ton of notes in a single .md file). Don't try to make these notes good enough to share as that adds too much overhead.

4. Always take your own notes in a meeting.

5. I will revisit my notes on a project from time to time, and sometimes walk through all of them, but I'm not really treating them like flashcards to memorize. I'm just looking for things that might need some renewed attention. Same with the backlog.

6. In general, I don't try to improve my memory because I don't know what I need to know for a week vs. what I won't look at again for a year. So I focus on being systematic about having good-enough notes on everything and don't really expect to remember anything. (I do remember some things but it's random.)

webel0 · 3 years ago
> Have a very lightweight note taking mechanism and use it as much as possible... Don't try to make these notes good enough to share as that adds too much overhead.

Second this. I use sublime text almost exclusively for this purpose. I have one file called daily_notes.md that has everything from meeting notes to formal writing to pasted error messages and code.

Each day gets an h1 but that is the extent of formal organization. I’m actually decently organized (at work, at least) but the simplicity is all about lowering the overhead of jotting stuff down. Keeping everything in one doc makes for very easy search.

Otherwise, I try to write reminders right away with whatever is handy. Mainly: Post-its, slack reminders, and Gmail scheduled sends to myself.

specialist · 3 years ago
Yes and: My life mgmt project notebook also has a habit tracker section, for all the life maintenance stuff.

Inspired by Seinfeld's "don't break the chain" calendar, but a lot more information dense. It's a big grid, tasks and day of month.

I make a hash mark for every completed task. The boxes are big enough for multiple hashes (eg walking dog 2x daily) and entering values (eg body weight).

monissiddiqui · 3 years ago
You gotta dial in your sleep, exercise and diet first. Consult professionals about sleep, diet and exercise issues to confirm you are in a sustainable and effective routine.

If those three fundamentals don't improve anything, you should then consult a professional to help. If the professionals can't help then you can try out personal suggestions from others (like this thread). This is just the path in order of most-likely to least-likely solutions.

It is possible that you have an inherently bad memory. It seems like long-term memory from your post, but some more clarification would be good.

No sweat. Look into Anki flashcards and do all your note taking for things you want to memorize long term. For all other forms of notes, just have them easily accessible via search or time/date stamps. Gotta craft systems using reliable tools as crutches to improve on any innate abilities. I may not be able to dunk on a ten-feet basketball hoop, but I sure can with a trampoline!

Cheers, and I hope you find a reliable solution soon. You deserve it

bryal · 3 years ago
Also, get a new smoke detector just to verify that you're not sleeping every night in a room with a carbon monoxide leak.
rsanek · 3 years ago
In addition, see if you can start sleeping with your window open overnight. Even if you don't have CO, if you're sleeping in a small room with a closed door and windows, your CO2 concentration will be really high.
mclouts91 · 3 years ago
You mean, get a CO detector. Smoke detectors won’t help.
theoa · 3 years ago
@marcellusDrum

I am seventy five. I have a very very good memory - for certain things. And a sucky memory for other things.

So, yes, harevesting memories is an issue for sure.

Nonethless: may I posit the other side?

Being able to forget is sublime!!!

I happen to be a person that writes software. The best thing I do these days is to forget the software that has already been written.

The "today" code I write - that even seems crazy - is singularity frequently better than yesterday's code.

My advice:

Forget the past

Remember your future

ox ox

Theo

GianFabien · 3 years ago
I've always had bad memory and suffer from mild dyslexia as well. Used to really struggle with exams at school because I found it hard to memorize stuff. But I didn't let it stop me. Did elec engineering degree and after a decade in industry went back to do a PhD in software engineering.

My solution: keeping a journal handy, writing down everything. For example, when I was doing network engineering on large corporate networks, I would write down every step that I performed, configuration data, etc. Adding page numbers, URLs for referenced tech doco. In my programs I write comments against every class/method to remind myself why I did things the way I did.

From what I've read and also based on my personal experience, writing by hand seems to make things more memorable. I also find it quicker to flick through bound journals than trying to find things on a computer/smartphone -- obviously tried those and they weren't as effective for me.

The bonus for me has been that I always updated design documentation to "as built and installed" state. My managers and clients really appreciated the accuracy.

temporallyright · 3 years ago
I have brain damage in my right temporal lobe, causing a lot of memory issues.

Everyone's giving you advice about changing your lifestyle so I'll go to the extreme: speak to your doctor and describe your symptoms, possibly a specialist (neurologist). They may want to do an MRI of the brain, or an IQ test (WAIS) to narrow their diagnosis.

At your age these problems are not normal (depending on severity of course, I don't know you). You want to get in front of this problem early if it's serious.

sjcoles · 3 years ago
Three journals/sets of docs:

Active - Currently doing/note taking on current task. The idea is not to recall later but for the task at hand. This is physical.

Reflective - After completing a task take the active notes and refine and update them for someone other than you. This is a git repo my team has access to.

Aspirational - Ideas, concepts, all that jazz. For me this is lots of mechanical drawings etc that I want to CAD up, interesting phenomena that could be reproduced with code, far fetched ideas to solve the world's problems, nothing is off limits. This is a physical notebook and the one thing I'd grab if my house was on fire.

Google has some good resources on technical writing[1].

[1] https://developers.google.com/tech-writing

version_five · 3 years ago
Ymmv but lack of focus (mainly from using my phone or checking online stuff too much) has destroyed my memory because I'm always half distracted when I'm doing stuff. If this may be the problem, leave your phone somewhere else when you're working, and look at what you can cut out from your online or attention economy routine.
WheelsAtLarge · 3 years ago
I've known a number of people that keep a daily diary just to remember what they need to get done. They review it at the end of the day and determine how to deal with the tasks. If they have something important that has not been processed, they mark the page with a post-it. It works mainly because you can adapt it to suit your style of working. Also, the more you use it the more you can determine what's important and what's not. If you are afraid of losing the book, take a photo of the page at the end of the day using MS OneNote or any of such apps as a back up. It's simple yet powerful.

Apps and such have the downside that you have to adapt to them and you have to learn the never ending variety. Also, nothing beats the portability and cost of a paper notebook.