I've been doing the public library, but I feel a little guilty about making it my workplace, day after day. There's some nearby coffee shops, but sometimes it's hard to find a comfy chair there. A few local restaurants offer wifi -- even the nearest Subway sandwiches -- but there's only one restaurant that's gone out of their way to say "Stay as long as you like!" My girlfriend suggested the library at the local community college (though I think I'd feel guilty unless I'd signed up for a class). I'm surprised there's not more free co-working Meetups (on Meetup.com). Maybe I should make my phone into a mobile hotspot and then just work in the park?
Anyways, I'm looking for suggestions. When you've been working remotely, what were the best places? (And how do you find them?)
Its not too bad when the kids are at school, but my biggest challenge is to convince my wife that 'I'm working'
I keep telling her 'No, I cannot watch the baby or run errands' because I need to focus on what I'm doing. She tells me she understands ,but after a few days it starts again.
I've done Coffee shops and libraries and I like working in that setting, my two main concerns are
- Meeting/Phone calls ( I dont want to disturb others)
- Physical Security ( too much of a hassle to take my laptop with me to the bathroom, and no proper anchor point)
If I don't have any more meetings for the day, I will just go and work from the Library/Coffee shop.
I've seen other guys working from coffee shops, that somehow take phone calls and attend meetings ,and I can barely hear them. If I ever master that skill "speaking quietly, yet clearly without actually whispering" it would make a big difference in my life.
First step is to get a good mic.
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If your wife is not respecting your needs around your home workspace, I'd recommend to either start working from a coworking space or rented office, or get an au pair to help with the tasks she's asking you about so that you can work without interruptions.
Thankfully, mine is Russian and treats my work and my role as a provider as sacred, so I get zero friction from her about the time and space I need to do my work.
There are also some days where my wife just has 0 respect for my office door and just keeps walking in interrupting me until she sees me look at her with that specific stay the fuck away, but remember I love you, look. Years of doing this has led to a balance but it takes time to get to, and some days it just doesn't work to be honest. If I know I have a critical day coming up, I always prep my family ahead of time, if it becomes one of those days midway through, I lock the door and tell them to give me time. They have figured this out and it works pretty good now without any friction or hurt feelings.
Outside of this, I also like to schedule and spend time at hot desk spaces some days and just go to a coffee shop or similar places other times. It helps to just have a different physical view some days IMO. I also will just sometimes leave the house without a destination and find a corner in a park or near the ocean and work, which anyplace near water is my personal heaven, so that usually lets me function and refocus some which is helpful.
I have done super critical conference calls from my truck when I am out or even from my back yard with just a quick finger for mute. Honestly sometimes I think this is better for me personally, because being outside and walking around almost helps me think clearer some days. I figured this out when I worked in the office actually, as I used to use walking (outside) meetings as a way to do 1-1's.
Don't feel guilty. That's what your taxes pay for.
For me nothing beats a quiet home office as I need to do really deep work in probability & logic.