I agree there are many out there using fake outrage for personal gain and ladder climbing. In this case DHH's frat club behavior was publicly called out. Instead of accepting responsibility he called timeout to cover his own behind. 37 lost business and credibility from the fallout. That's hardly harmless.
I must say, my expectations of where things are in terms of reliability and performance have not been met. Sure on my new threadripper machine with an RTX4080 I can get a decent realtime result, but this is for a month long art installation in another country..
On a Raspberry Pi 3b+ I can decode one frames every 2.5 seconds using the smallest model. Nwed to consider my old notebook.