They will don't want to attack other country, sure. But Russian forces are doing just that right now, and you know, under proper propaganda, most Russians support Putin (86% as of the most recent surveys), and think war in Ukraine is organized by Americans.
So regular Russian troops think they're going there to _defend_ Ukrainians from Americans, same as they did in 1968 in Czechoslovakia.
Actually, regular troops appeared there only recently, conflict was started earlier by local pro-Russian people, heavily supported by Russia by means of contract warriors from Chechnya, arms, including heavy: tanks, anti-aircraft systems that brought down MH17, and most importantly -- military instructors (their leader was Russian from KGB/FSB).
So mentality is not a stopping factor there. Before WW2 people mostly thought it's impossible to repeat cruelties of WW1.
I'm Belarussian, so I know Russian mentality. It's not as smart and humane as you're assuming.
We don't have to tolerate people who make women feel unsafe and unwelcome in our (or any) industry.
You seem to be arguing the usual tired old thing: "but he's a genius and does such great work that we should tolerate the bad things he does". I really thought we'd started to move past that over the last few years.