Most open-source solvers don't handle parallelization well, and they lack the latest research on techniques like branch-cutting and heuristics that can speed things up significantly.
In my experience, Gurobi is still leader for linear and MiP solving. But, it's really expensive and the licensing terms seem anachronistic.
SimpleRose.com was a startup working on a new solver, too - I'm curious if anybody has tried it yet?
I remember liking JuMP, but Julia itself didn't feel ready yet. Some of the packages had weird behaviors. For example, Gadfly took several minutes to render some of my charts. IIRC when I looked at the source, it was solving a MIP to compute the best bounding box for display purposes.
I should probably check it out again.
Also: agreed regarding Gurobi licensing.