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notduncansmith commented on 4o Image Generation   openai.com/index/introduc... · Posted by u/meetpateltech
uh_uh · 9 months ago
I hope you're joking. Sometimes they don't even know which company developed them. E.g. DeepSeek was claiming it was developed by OpenAI.
notduncansmith · 9 months ago
I hope you’re joking :)
notduncansmith commented on Everyone knows your location: tracking myself down through in-app ads   timsh.org/tracking-myself... · Posted by u/apokryptein
ajcp · a year ago
It's odd that of the two replies referencing people, both got their names obviously wrong. Is that a new phishing tactic?
notduncansmith · a year ago
Russian bot tactic? Guessing it’s an easy way to farm interaction as people comment back to correct the mistake.
notduncansmith commented on ADHD Didn't Break Me–My Parents Did   claimingattention.substac... · Posted by u/asoli
hkpack · a year ago
The person blaming his parents because they tried to do their job of, well, parenting a child with ADHD.

I’ve read that psychotherapy is much more difficult when there is no-one to blame. So it might help for him, until he will have his own kids with ADHD and fail in a completely opposite way.

I would not recommend anyone to blame parents of neurodivergent kids, as it is a very difficult job to do right.

notduncansmith · a year ago
I didn’t read the author as blaming, and I can relate to what they’re saying. It’s hard to speak about a childhood full of abuses that thought they had your best interests at heart. I was locked in my room for days on end (sometimes back-to-back stints for weeks), deprived of privileges/books/music, berated, demeaned, and ultimately gaslit, throughout my childhood, because my parents didn’t really understand ADHD (or that I had it). It created a pretty big mismatch between expectations and reality. As a kid, I resented them a lot for this. As an adult (and parent), I realize what it must have looked like to them and I can empathize without condoning their behavior.

My performance is heavily bimodal: my adult ADHD assessment included scores in the 98th percentile and the 8th depending on the task. I also have an extremely wandering mind. Taken together, it seemed to my parents that I was a brilliant child who simply “refused to work hard”. This was not only toxic for my relationship with them, it poisoned my self-image and ability to relate to others for the first two decades of my life.

Any resentment I might have over that is ultimately misplaced. They were loving and caring parents who missed the mark in a way that just so happened to fundamentally shape my childhood experience. ADHD wasn’t even understood the way it is now, so the most I could have hoped for in childhood was a prescription.

Instead, I now make a point to be a parent who understands my own ADHD and my kid’s (which thankfully is pretty identical to mine). I help them use alarm clocks and timers like I do. I give them tools to understand and empathize with other people. I don’t treat dragging their feet on a task as disrespect or disinterest. I don’t get hurt when they lash out at me during a hard time. I’m not baffled or disgusted when their words reveal their underdeveloped empathy, and I try to accelerate that development.

I just cannot agree more that it’s a difficult job to get right. All kids need structure and discipline, but the types and amounts can vary widely, even for the same kid across their stages of development. I’m so thankful for the research that has been done and resources that have been created since I was young; without that I would have been a lot more like my parents, and my kid would have barely had a chance. I also appreciate OP for sharing their experience with us. It’s not fun to do but it’s necessary for understanding to grow.

notduncansmith commented on Ants vs. Humans: Putting Group Smarts to the Test   wis-wander.weizmann.ac.il... · Posted by u/thunderbong
suryajena · a year ago
> "Forming groups did not expand the cognitive abilities of humans. The famous ‘wisdom of the crowd’ that’s become so popular in the age of social networks didn’t come to the fore in our experiments"

If it were true wouldn't all democratic societies be in danger. Our whole society is based off the wisdom of the crowds.

notduncansmith · a year ago
Given the coordination/cooperation aspect of the problem, this isn’t really the “wisdom of the crowd” as I’ve always understood it.

Something like estimating the number of beans in a jar is a good fit, since there is only one layer of perception to agree on and no coordination required.

This experiment as described seems closer to “design by committee” with (predictably) similar results.

notduncansmith commented on The Birthday Paradox Experiment (2018)   pudding.cool/2018/04/birt... · Posted by u/thunderbong
phito · a year ago
I really like the fact that it's using the previous user birthdays. Unfortunately today is my birthday and I think a lot of people are entering today's date as their birthday, I got 6 matches... :)
notduncansmith · a year ago
Happy birthday :)
notduncansmith commented on Psilocybin bests SSRI for major depression in first long-term comparison   medscape.com/viewarticle/... · Posted by u/Thomvis
reissbaker · a year ago
TBH there's no way to have a double blind trial of drugs like psilocybin (Scott Alexander has written a little bit about this [1] with respect to controlled trials for MDMA), for any reasonable dose size of psilocybin. Both the patient and the person administering the drug will become very aware, very quickly, if they're in the psilocybin group.

1: https://slatestarcodex.com/2017/06/05/is-pharma-research-wor...

notduncansmith · a year ago
This is wrong. You can absolutely dose psylocybin at levels that make a meaningful difference in experience (certainly enough to have an anti-depressant effect) without “tripping” or being in any way impaired. For many adults, this will be around 100-200mg of psilocybin.
notduncansmith commented on Show HN: Parse your Postgres queries into a fully-typed AST in TypeScript   github.com/pg-nano/pg-par... · Posted by u/aleclarsoniv
moltar · a year ago
You can edit Prisma migrations. They are plain SQL files with no magic.
notduncansmith · a year ago
+1 have had to edit Prisma files after generating a migration, it went fine. As ‘moltar says, no magic.
notduncansmith commented on Sanding UI   blog.jim-nielsen.com/2024... · Posted by u/roosgit
ddtaylor · a year ago
The goto tactic for this specific `<label>` problem is:

    <label>
        Foo
        <input>
    </label>

notduncansmith · a year ago
This was my first thought. The entire text label should toggle the radio or checkbox, not just the box and the padding.

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