I would say the proper reaction to bullshit is critical thinking. Take someone like James Randi, and imagine instead of disproving deceptions he had just pretended to receive a message from spirits that this or that person was faking something. That's "competition" alright, but it's not helping, and it just helps normalizes something that has greater potential for abuse than use.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/film/film-news/11270453/...
http://zthoughtcriminal.blogspot.com/2013/04/randis-involvem...
Unfortunately for those without a wide/deep network of college friends, former colleagues, etc. it's hard to judge character and skills without a previous friendship or shared work environment, etc. If you're forced to evaluate a potential co-founder in the absence of shared history, work on something small together for a few days/weeks and see how it goes.
Another thing to do in all cases is to discuss downside/failure scenarios right up-front, and see if there's a sense of openness and fairness. Check out the books The Founder's Dilemmas and Slicing Pie for structuring the conversations, as they give vital ideas and precedents around formalizing the founders' relationships. It's much easier to chat about failure and equity before real work starts, and I've seen many times that it flushes out assumptions and behaviors that you won't want on your team (assuming you're the reasonable and fair one :-).
Unfortunately, I am a PhD researcher just finishing their thesis this summer so I would not believe that my financial situation will allow me to pay for both the retreat and living expenses.
Are the folks you attract mostly financially settled i.e. holding down real jobs?
As an Emacs lover, I soon found Org, and it was (and remains) the perfect tool, for working in plain text — which will never be obsolete, and works easily with git or version control. Then and now, nothing could match Org speed and flexibility: structural editing (creating nodes, moving nodes, promote/out-dent a node, demote/in-dent a node) was and is fundamental to Org (unlike Markdown etc), and it's ridiculously easy to reorganize thinking and writing as you go. You can export to LaTeX (or HTML) and customize formatting as needed, while also including code blocks from multiple languages. Integration with BibTeX was tight, and made handling hundreds of references easy.
Where other writing tools for complex documents previously made me cringe and cuss, Org makes writing a pure joy, freeing the mind to work entirely on content and its structure.