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heisnotanalien commented on LLMs should not replace therapists   arxiv.org/abs/2504.18412... · Posted by u/layer8
rapamycin · 2 months ago
That sounds like a friend. You cant buy a friend.
heisnotanalien · 2 months ago
No. A properly trained therapist essentially holds space so you can find yourself. That's not something you want to burden a friend with. It's a common misconception that it is just about 'talking'. Good therapy is more about feeling.
heisnotanalien commented on LLMs should not replace therapists   arxiv.org/abs/2504.18412... · Posted by u/layer8
rapamycin · 2 months ago
Therapists are expensive, part of a moneymaking operation, they are imposed restrictions on what they can say and not, you cant tell them everything sbout suicide and stuff, they try to keep their personal life away from the convo, they are your makeshift friend (whore) that pretends to want to help you by trying to help themselves. They are just trying to get you out, prescribe u some drugs and listen to you. Therspists are useless.

It’s much better to talk to DeepSeekR1 495B snd discuss with a free and open source model that holds the whole world of knowledge. You can talk to it for free for an unlimited free time, let it remember who u are through memory and be able to talk to it about anything and everything and debate and talk about all worlds philosphy and discuss all ur problems without being judged and without having to feel like ur paying a platonic prostitute.

Therspists should die out. Thank god. Ive been to therapists and they are 99% useless and expensive.

heisnotanalien · 2 months ago
You don't go to a therapist to learn cognitive knowledge. You go to heal your way of relating with others. It's not easy and can only be done in the messy complicated emotional world of relationship with another human being. You need to feel their eyes on you. You need to feel vulnerable and on the point. You need to be guided to feel into your body.
heisnotanalien commented on ChatGPT Pro   openai.com/index/introduc... · Posted by u/meetpateltech
heisnotanalien · 9 months ago
Struggling to reconcile this is cool with what about the insane energy/water costs. Are we supposed to stick our heads in the sand? Hope it will magically go away?
heisnotanalien commented on Software engineer titles have almost lost all their meaning   trevorlasn.com/blog/softw... · Posted by u/doppp
heisnotanalien · 10 months ago
I've experienced this and I think it's due to skills matrix bingo. You're a junior engineer and to become a senior engineer all you need to do is make a line in the skills matrix. Write a test! Be nice to someone in a code review! Boom! BINGO! Senior engineer.

Of course it's good to know what you need to do to become a Senior. It used to be more wooly but at the same time even the best thought-out skills matrices don't capture what a Senior engineer really is.

heisnotanalien commented on The introverts are winning   newhumanist.org.uk/articl... · Posted by u/johntfella
heisnotanalien · a year ago
We need more third spaces beyond the gym or things based around alcohol. I like the idea of members clubs where people have similar values/interests and you can go there and chat to people. Laptops/phones banned.
heisnotanalien commented on How I Computer in 2024   jnsgr.uk/2024/07/how-i-co... · Posted by u/jnsgruk
jnsgruk · a year ago
I don't think so, I use both Ubuntu and NixOS every day, and split my extra-curricular activities between the two communities.

I've got a couple of actual machines running Ubuntu, and run it a lot in VMs/LXD containers depending on what I'm doing (see: https://jnsgr.uk/2024/06/desktop-vms-lxd-multipass/).

On my personal machines I'm running NixOS because I find it interesting.

heisnotanalien · a year ago
Makes sense. Thanks for sharing your setup. Sounds great.
heisnotanalien commented on How I Computer in 2024   jnsgr.uk/2024/07/how-i-co... · Posted by u/jnsgruk
heisnotanalien · a year ago
You work for Canonical but use NixOS? Isn't that er a bit weird?
heisnotanalien commented on SnowflakeOS: Beginner friendly and GUI focused NixOS variant   snowflakeos.org/... · Posted by u/tkz1312
mtndew4brkfst · a year ago
I'm a user of Nix for about seven years and finally decided back in March, during the second rehash of $sponsor controversy, that I'll stop investing and move away from the tech as soon as I have a suitable replacement.

I've been critical of Nix for a variety of reasons along the way but one of those reasons is how so many people (and consultancies) seem hell-bent to set up their own little fiefdoms within the community.

The community is already niche, we certainly didn't need people purposely driving further fragmentation and incompatibility with these frameworks with bad bus factor and NIH designs.

I've seen a lot of tribalism and cargo culting around some of the other efforts in this vein, too.

heisnotanalien · a year ago
I don't know much about the project but as an outsider it all just seems totally insane! People writing letters with screenshots of actions really? Liking a post becomes the equivalent to going on a political march or something? I can't help wonder if a lot of these problems would be avoided by more collaborative in person/talking and frankly more emotional awareness. It's all cognitive left-brain stuff - where is the emotional centre?
heisnotanalien commented on Turning an iPad Pro into the Ultimate Classic Macintosh (2021)   blog.gingerbeardman.com/2... · Posted by u/surprisetalk
msephton · 2 years ago
A lot of software or features have been discarded in the name of "progress".

You can use modern software bit it's not a given that you'll be able to do everything that you could in the past, or that it will be as easy and straightforward if you can still do it.

Perhaps it's surprised to hear that there are things these old apps and operating system can do that no modern software can do as well? Drawing in dither patterns is one (useful today for platforms such as Playdate), but there are many more.

heisnotanalien · 2 years ago
Very interesting.
heisnotanalien commented on Turning an iPad Pro into the Ultimate Classic Macintosh (2021)   blog.gingerbeardman.com/2... · Posted by u/surprisetalk
heisnotanalien · 2 years ago
What's the advantage of this? Can't you use a modern paint program? What am I missing? Is it just coolness factor?

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