Shift to local-only thinking and living.
Independence.
Present in the day-day.
Breaking of bad habits.
Living deliberately
- reduce (if not eliminate) wild online shopping (eg. Amazon) to reduce carbon footprint/waste of packaging and not nurturing giants that do not care about employee dignity
- reduce if not eliminate meat consuption or at least buy animal related food that respect animal life and dignity.
Not fully agree with no consuming news, even though most of them are biased or worst fake i think that one can manage try to find the truth in all this chaos.
> Additionally, I'm struggling to establish clear boundaries between my job and side projects. I often find myself working on my side projects during work hours and vice versa, which leads to feelings of guilt on both fronts. This is one problem i also had, just discipline yourself to make sure you allocate the time properly, for your paying job it will be easy just follow the 8-5 rule, for you personal allocate 1,2 hours for that, no more.
For me it was very important to separate the 2 things, make sure that you put something between the 2, physical activity would be good (run, walk, but also clean the house and/or prepare a meal), you will have more energy and passion to put into your personal project.
Another big mistake that i made was to think that i could be 99% into work+personal project, dedicating time to other activities such as: playing guitar, drawing, going out with friends (or whatever different interest you have), the important thing is that is something NOT RELATED to standing in front of a PC.
After all, we are human being and our soul must be fullfilled with other things as well, job and personal project will benefit more thant you could do by being obsessed with them and not caring about you as a whole.
Make sure that a passion doesn't become an obsession. Hope it helps.
In the first case (you can't leave because of stability) i would consider to sneak into grey areas of your company where you can indroduce something new (new build system, refactoring and whatever), it will require more effort than usual and depending on the company is not 100% sure thy will reward you for this (consider the reward to be the task itself), this way can grow by applying those skills to real life problem, if you don't have obligations i may say, leave and find something else but keep in mind that in 99% of the companies you will find the same situation.
Anyway, side projects/blogging is what i would advice in every case, just a disciplined 30 mins a day makes the differece.